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Nut-Meg1453 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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I’ve been BFFs with my guy friend since birth. But ever since he started hanging out with his new popular jock friends, he’s been acting like a total jerk. And the popular guys don’t even like him! I try to tell him they’re no good, but he just gives me a look and walks away. He told me, “I don’t need your help anymore. You’ve turned into a nerd.” I wanted to cry. I can’t even explain how much he means to me. Help!

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Dont let him put you down,let him learn for himself that they don't really like him.You can already say you tired because you were being a good friend by telling him if he didn't want to listen what else can you do?let him learn the hard way.He thinks there his friends now but later on he'll realize who his really friend were.Good luck and don't cry he'll be back if he's a real friend he'll be back.
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I'm sure you are hurting right now at your friend's behavior and that you may feel rejected. My personal advice is that it would be beneficial for you to not take his behavior personally. If you do, you will get hurt. But, instead, look at it this way: He is evidently going through a phase right now - trying to find where he fits in. You are able to see that he does not fit in with the people he considers "friends" at this time, but he is not able to see that. He wants to find a place where he belongs, and this is where he thinks he belongs. Even though he doesn't see or understand that he does not belong there, he sees your telling him that they are no good as a negative thing because he wants you to accept them and to support him in his decision. Even though you feel like he belongs with you, he does not know that and is trying his best to find where he belongs. My advice regarding that is: Don't tell him that he doesn't belong with them or that they don't like him or care about him because he will not listen to that, and your words will only hurt him right now. Instead, continue to be there for him and support him. Allow him to go through this experience and find out for himself that it's not where he belongs. Stay a friend to him and he will see that you are a true friend and that you truly care about him. He may just need this in order to see you for who you really are to him - someone who cares about him. He may then find that his place is with you. However, if you speak negatively of his actions, he is not going to listen to you and you may end up pushing him away. He needs to find out for himself! Good luck! :)
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ALWAYSclassy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Well if he wants to be a jerk, don't take that. If you've tried to reach out to him and he's still treating you like crap, then he is just no good and you don't need to be around him. I know it hurts, but he will realize how wrong he was when the popular people turn on him and let them know how they really feel about him.

Right now he feels powerful because his status has gone up. He's forgetting who his real friends are but time always shows who really has your back.
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