well I just wondered as I don't want my own children and I want to adopt will a guy still marry me or would you find this an issue as you want your own children and not adopted ones? I'm perfectly able to have children I just never want my own is this wrong and am I still marryable?
I personally want to adopt one child, however I still want one or two of my own. I kind of see having a child/children of my own as a way of continuing my bloodline and the bloodline of my significant other, among some other reasons. But I think there are guys out there that would marry you and adopt with you.
I would still marry such a girl, although I hope I still find a girl who wants a child of her own. But it would be unfortunate because the both of us would miss out on those few months of pregnancy and the month right after birth where the mother is completely helpless and exhausted and I would have to be her slave, servant, butler, everything. It sounds counterintuitive, but I would actually enjoy that time when the father has to do almost everything for the mother.
Personally, I would have no issue with it; and there is a plus side. You have that "no-baby" body forever.
No morning sickness for you; I don't have to get up in the middle of the night to get you wahtever craving you have; no stretch marks; no doctor's visits or prenatal classes; no backache or waddling around.
I think there are plenty of men that don't mind; as far as myself, I woldn't mind having my own, but if for whtever reason that can't happen, then I don't mind adopting. What's important is that you tell your partner about how you feel about it, before is too late.
I just don't want my own I don't want to go through pregnancy and I would rather give children who don't have a family a family to give them a good life than have my own - A month ago
Just wanted to say, those are like my exact reasons for wanting to adopt instead of having kids of my own lol :] I'm glad most of these guys said it would be fine with them haha - A month ago
Exactly! you don't have to deal with the 9 months of pregnancy and at the same time you get to adopt a child that needs a loving caring home! It works out in so many more ways than people think! - A month ago
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