Should I save the guy who broke my heart from a disease??

Sounds like excellent social justice to me. Anyone with half a brain cell should know that if they were a huge ass to everyone in their life, then there isn't going to be anyone there for them when they need it, whether it's just someone to talk to or someone to donate a liver and save their life. It's tragic that it's so extreme, but it sounds like he's reaping what he sowed. He kept it a secret, treated you like shit, acted like he would hate it if you donated it, and then begged you to save his life. I say tough luck.

Fuck that! No one should make you feel like you need to risk your own life to save someone else. And someone that was a dick to you in the first place.

Unless somehow you think you will end up with this guy and he will be good to you. which sounds doubtful.

What if something happens to you during this or down the road? Do you think his family would care?

Tell the parents since he was so horrible to you that you will do it for their car or like $10,000 or something.

How did he get liver disease in the first place? If its drinking or drugs then I think you should let him live with his decisions. People like that just f*** up the new liver too.

I think its wrong for them to pressure someone as young as you into something so major.

sorry to ask but
how did it turn out?

Wow. I'm sorry to hear that, that is a horrible situation. I don't think I would put myself at risk to save a person who didn't give a damn about me. I mean, HALF your liver? I'm not a doctor, but does the liver regenerate? You might need that yourself one day.

And if he did drugs to exacerbate his liver problem, knowing that he had one.um that might play into part to.

But I would feel bad telling you NOT to do it.I know you have a lot of pressure from the family and friends. Just pray about it and do what you believe God tells you to.
xo

Do it. Not for the sake of your feelings but for the sake of his family and friends. I no that you are in a hard spot because he hurt you so bad and he still treats you like shit but if you don't do this you will be taking a life and hurting everyone that loves him. If he dies because you didn't do the transplant then you might regret it for the rest of your life. you might not. But if he is truly grateful for you putting your life on the line to save his then he will find some way to thank you. This is a very tricky situation but you have to do the right thing. Chances are that you will not die because I am sure the doctors will take excellent care of you and so will his parents if you need anything. Just think, if you were in his situation and he was the only one that could save your life, wouldn't you want his help?

oh gah I wouldn't know what to do either I mean personally I wouldn't put myself at risk for someone who treated me badly or said that they would feel like I own them if I did!

if it was someone I was with and loved or if it was one of my friends I would do it in a heart beat but I wouldn't do it for a person who treated me like that !
i would feel terrible for not don't get me worng but putting yourself at seriois risk for someone who doesn't care about you ? well I don't know I know I wouldnt!

but I think you have to really really think long and hard about it because its a major decision

its probably a lot harder because his family are begging you to ,but they have to understand what would your family feel if you died? go to your doctor get checked out find out all the risks and how much % a risk you are at of dying then decide

Wow okay this is a risk for the both of you, not to mention that it involves emotional feelings and maybe motives. Its hard because you love him but understand that he may never feel the same and even despise you for the big and honorable deed your doing to save him. People usually feel obligated to repay the person who's given a gift. Do you care or is saving him more important. Evaluate how you would feel if you did it the pros and cons of YOUR life and his after the transplant. Think of your feelings if you didn't do it the pros and cons. How would you feel if he died? Your not obligated to do this & don't blame yourself it is purely a personal choice and a matter of your heart. If you go through with it you have to make sure to stay healthy. I don't want to as a complete stranger with no degree in counseling help you make a life decision because its a Life decision. I think you should talk to your family, doctor and close friends. Go for counseling & I wish you the best.