I have always been overweight and I see the way people look at me and I'm wondering are they disgusted or is it pity. Would you ever date someone who didn't have a models body.
I think it is human nature that when you see a person that is different or not considered normal by society, that a person is turned off by it. I am very skinny and I get that reaction a lot, just as people who are overweight get that reaction. Everyone strives to be accepted, which means average, and unfortunately I do not think it is going to change for some time.
I guess your right, it's just hard to think that society puts more stock in being thin then smart. Like when I go for a job interview the skinny bimbo with the IQ of a 12 year old will get the job and I'll be passed by, because the male manager would prefer to work with a HOTTIE as apposed to a FATTIE lol. Not saying a skinny people arew dumb, that was just one thing that has happened to me because of my weight. - 2 months ago
No, I'm not disgusted by anyone and I'm not really concerned with body types aside from my own. I admit I like my men on the tall/thin side but those are just my tastes and I don't look down on or pity anyone who's different.
I'll be honest, fat people do kinda disgust me. But are we talking FAT, or just overweight? When I say fat people disgust me I'm generally talking about obese people. I find that gross. But I find plenty of overweight people to be perfectly attractive. Some people I have known that I would even say I think look better a little more "plump". And I definitely think some of it depends on how it is distributed and how the person presents themselves. Some "fat" people start to let themselves go in general. That just makes a bad situation worse. Like they just give up or something. Sad. Then you have heavy people who still look real good because they keep themselves up and carry themselves confidently, etc. Kinda like the difference in Kirstie Alley vs. Dana Owens (Queen Latifah). Kirstie Alley got fat and it's like she just gave up and she always looked nasty. Even after that she would lose weight and she still just looked wrong. Nasty. But then Dana Owens has always been on the heavy side but she has also ALWAYS looked great!
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I would go any were and do any thing from a laid back dinner to stealing gnomes off peoples lawns but I could not imagine a date with out sitting on a bench in a park and talking
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Any thing and every thing they want to I am a very open person but at the same time very shy