Why is it that when you ask a girl if she cares about the looks she usually says no and then you say "you swear?" and they are like I swear I'm into the personality but then when you ask them out, they are like I'm sorry you are not my type.
Looks barely matter to me, okay? And just because she said you're not her type, doesn't mean she's talking about your looks. She's most likely talking about your personality.
lala4011
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Regardless of what someone says looks are slightly important. That's what attracts you to someone. But personality is what is going to make that person care about you. If people were smart they would realize that looks fade with time but personality will stand the test of time. Unfortunately everyone is wired the same when it comes to physical attraction. It's survival of the fittest the need to keep the species alive. Now as much as this sucks it's completely true.
Most girls don't want to hurt a guys feelings if they don't click. I would say that with girls, looks don't matter as much as with guys. But there is a lot more to attraction then just personality. Someone can have the best personality but there still isn't that spark. You need to not be so hard on yourself. We can't control who we like or don't like. There will always be girls that you like that don't like you, and there will always be girls that you don't like that like you. There are ways that you can increase your chances of being attractive to a girl.
They lie because they are trying to spare your feelings if you aren't very good looking. Otherwise, they are telling the truth and you really aren't their type, personality wise.
Zillidan
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
Why do guys lie?
We all lie dude, sometimes because we're shy or just don't want someone to know your feelings for him or her.
Try to think of yourself having a girl ask you if you like her and your shy you would say no! People are like this reverse psychology, kinda like how someone avoids someone they like, yea so that's pretty much it.
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