I have this friend. She is a fun girl to hang out with but she's got the loudest mouth in the entire world. I recently told her something then found out she told my other friend. So I told my other friend (not the same one) something else. It got to her and now I'm trying to convince her that was a lie. Should I even tell her anything anymore. Should I even trust her at all?
Tell her straight to her face with an elevated, angry tone,
"(Her name) I really enjoy hanging out with you, but I cannot keep having you gossiping, spreading rumors, and totally ruining my self-image. The next time I tell you something I expect it to never leave your head, okay?"
If she blows it again, just don't tell her personal information anymore, or just stop being friends. She is likely the kind of person who thrives off of drama and would rather see the world in chaos than have a moment of silence.
You need to talk to her and be stern and angry and say " Your a cool person to chill with and hand with but I don't appreciate you gossiping and spreading lies." She'll get the message after that and if she does it again tell her that you don't trust her and make her either earn your trust back or just stop being friends with her . You need to be able to trust your friends and not worry that they'll run and tell someone else what you tell them in complete confidence.
Some people can't hold their water. So, now that you know that, don't share things with her that you want to keep private. You know how she is. Find someone else to tell secrets to whose mouth is like Fort Knox.
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