Let's just say that I haven't had much luck with anything lately, and it's getting to the point were it seems that what ever I do when talking with girls just ends up wrong. What are some ways I can approach a girl casually without looking or sounding like an idiot? Cause as of now, that's all I seem to be. Some girls say that you should just walk up and introduce yourself, but it's not that simple. How do you gain enough confidence to walk up to a random girl and start talking to them, and then some how get their name/number? Any feedback would be very helpful.
"Do you have an asprin?" Or, "Could I borrow your cell phone, mine just died" (Make sure you turn yours off, then call and check up on your sick mother or something). You can only ask this once in any one place if they actually have an asprin and don't do it all the time or you will wreck your stomach lol... But most women don't mind helping then you can tell them about your (fake) pain or your sick mom or whatever and start a conversation from there.
Just relax! and just BE smooth but not too smooth, try not to talk a lot nobody likes a know it all fast talker. once you think she likes you a little bit SLOW DOWN!just ask about HER casually untell she wants to know about you and REMEMBER she's not one of your bros. you know? don't stay on the same page as her be one step ahead of her lol how often have you seen guys treat there girls like one of there homies. not very often I bet, its ok to throw a few jokes her way. also involve her in them she'll be attractied to you for sure, I know confidence is a word thrown around a lot on this subject but you don't just wake up one day with total self confidence, it takes practice and a little work its a life long battle .just put all the negitive things in the back of you head right now, tell you self your the only person you have at the end of EVERY day so don't waste YOURSELF the time is now! good things will happen(I won't say it takes time to gain confidence because you might do it quick who knows) just RELAX that's the main thing, And all is well that ends well. so make sure you treat her just like you would treat any other human and leave on a good note like " oh I forgot I left a Friend waiting, hows about we finish this conversation some other time" pretend like you have many places you could be and you want to spend your time wisely LISTEN and relax but don't try too hard they like it when they have steal your attentin away from other things it makes them feel like they are trying for something.who REALLY needs what one can get for free? Becides Girls arnt the only thing on earth Have fun girls will always be around and always available so if you get shot down by one just take that as a practice test, you'll never expect it when it happens that's how girls are1 good luck buddy!
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