Being treated wrong, why?

I gotta agree with the consensus here, that it's probably mostly about the age range. Even though we all say we want a great guy and a great relationship, I don't think most of us REALLY do. If everything was perfect and wonderful at such a young age, we would get married at a young age and let's face it. most of those situations don't work so well because as you start to get older you find yourself changing and what you thought you once wanted, isn't really what you wanted anymore.

Plus like someone said, look at who you are attracted to. Because I have one guy friend who has this same complaint but then he picks the absolute worst women! Most of the time he's either chasing a married woman or some hood rat. In the past 2 years he has only gone after ONE girl who was actually a pretty good girl but she still ended up crushing him, chewing him up and spitting him back out. And yeah she ran 100mph in the other direction and ended up with some jackass asshole that beat the crap outta her. In her case I think she was a nice girl but she just had too many "issues" and wasn't ready. So really it boils back down to a poor choice on his part since he knew her pretty well before they dated and probably should have known that about her.

this is because girls love flirting with the bad guy. I'm sorry, but that's the sad truth. only when women are about 25 do they start going out with nice guys. this is because they're older, more mature, and ready for a serious relationship. most girls wouldn't have a serious relationship with their "jackass asshole" boyfriend, because they know the consequences.

Take a really good look at the type of girl you are attracted to. Do you tend to go for the butthole type girl because she is very flirty, wild, and the life of the party? Believe me. There are plenty of girls out here trying to find you but you guys seem to keep missing each other.

She's out there. Don't worry.

Good luck!

Yo Dude Know exactly what your talkin bout! I've always been the good guy but every long term relationship I've had (longest is 3 years) the girl ends up cheating on me.Its not like I'm boring I usually have the girls chasing after me until they find out that I'm polite and tactful. It really sucks and I know exactly what you mean. Wish I had an answer just wanted to give ya my sympathy and good luck with the battle.

It's just the age range bro. Girls at that age don't know what they want. They don't really think about it until they are around 24-26. As they get older, you'll find more that actually go for what they say they want. In the meantime, just have some fun, and don't get into anything "serious".

Hang in there!