one of my best friends is dating this girl who was pretty cool when they weren't dating. but the second they started dating she got completely needy and m buddies and her face is never separated more than 6 inches from each other and its EXTREMELY ANNOYING! so when I confronted my friend about it he said he would back it off, but never did. soo then me and another one of my friends asked him to cut it out around us, soo a couple days later the friend who went and talked to him with me said he's gonna have a "talk"with me.my question is.did I do anything wrong by it? because it really is starting to piss me off. because I don't like it when people tell me what to do when it comes to stuff like that, just because he has gotten his girlfriend into bed! do I have a right to be mad about him not respecting that me and my other friends don't feel like watching them in a constant lip-lock?
I think you have the right to be mad. No one wants to see constant PDA, especially when they're just trying to hang out with a friend of their's. Being that you did talk to him about how you had an issue with it, he should have the respect to at least cut it down a bit.
Did it ever occur to you that maybe their relationship isn't about YOU? That YOU aren't respecting HIM? Unless you've actually dated your friend, you don't know how he handles relationships. Everyone goes through a 'honeymoon' phase, where they can't get enough of each other, they want to be superclose, etc. And you're disrespecting your friend in a HUGE way, by essentially telling him that you don't CARE if he's happy, or how he feels; that it's all about you, and he needs to make YOU happy. As opposed to just focusing on himself and his girlfriend. If she's that awful, he'll see it in time, and they may or may not stay together. But I don't see how you have the right to dictate that. If you don't like what they're doing, HANG OUT WITH SOMEONE ELSE! It's fully your choice to spend time with them. If you continue to do so, then get over your issues, and deal with it. Otherwise, tell him it bothers you, and you'll hang out with him again when his PDA with her has slowed down. I'm not trying to be disrespectful, but you really need to take a good look at yourself. Your friend is obviously happy with the way things are. Why can't you just be happy for him? Good luck
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