I have this friend. And she recently told me this huge secret she had been hiding for more than a year. She told me that she had this boyfriend who was 32 years old (she's 16) and that her boyfriend was her cousin. Weird huh? I didn't know how to react or what to tell her. If her mom would find out, she would die. I want to help her out. This guy can get pretty possessive over her. To such an extreme that she hardly ever goes out anymore because he will get jealous. He thinks that other guys will hit on her. Also he is married! He promised her that he was going to divorce his wife really soon. (I know that's not gonna happen) but she won't listen to me. His wife lives in another country but he plans to bring her here with his son. (yea he has a son) I think she complicated her life way too much. What can I tell her to make her understand? (sorry guys this was really long)
Genesis5
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
If this is all true then you have to tell her parents. This is a very serious situation that is very illegal, and also extremly damaging to her.
I know that doing something a friend asked you not to can be hard, so before going to her parents, give her the option of going with you. Let her know how worried you are for her, and how much you care for her well being.
She may still get upset with you, but as a friend you need to risk that for her safety.
Please let her parents or school counselor know so that she can get the help she needs.
sing4him-2479
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
You need to tell someone. This is very illegal and just plain wrong. A friend keeps a secret. A true friend will tell someone the secret if it's something harmful. Tell somone.
If this is true, you need to tell her parents. She's in over her head, it's completely illegal and, second to drugs, the most ignorant thing she could do.
Her cousin? What the hell, that is disgusting. Either tell her parents or sell the story to Jerry Springer. If you really are a friend, you will risk her getting mad at you and let an adult help her through this.
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
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