the chat between us wasn't anything serious or for him to mean it in any negative way. we were just talking about where he lived (which was far from town) and he mentioned how it was convenient for her. he mentioned it once and never brought up the word 'wife' again.
It means he is trying to remove the deeply interpersonal connection (marriage) he has with his wife, by referring to her using the word: her. "Her" does not have the emotional attachment that the word "wife" has. Possibly, this will make you feel better, and him less guilty.
I don't know, I guess it could be what jcycler said, but I think it could also be just a kind of conversational shorthand. I call my boyfriend "him" sometimes in conversation with others and I don't think it's because I'm trying to diminish the relationship.
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