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She slapped me across the face?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 5 months ago
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My friend lost her Dad (he was 42) in a car accident and she been annoying me ever since it happen. One day wining about her Dad and I lost it (didn't mean to) and told her she's being obsessed with him and needs to forget him (again I didn't mean too). She SLAPPED me across the face (don't why she did it and it hurt) and walk away. Than later get a phone call one of her friend (mine too) telling me much a jerk I am and she in the bathroom CRYING at lunch time! I got one of friends to say sorry for me but he told me that she won't accept my apology until I do it in person, help me.

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Nut-Meg1453
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Nut-Meg1453 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Why don't you be a man and apologize to her in person? I mean she slapped you. You get off pretty easy. I would have did something a lot worse.
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sheepingly
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sheepingly (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
well it was kinda mean.i understand but the loss anyone.parent, friend and etc. is a HARD thing to deal with.people just don't forget about people they care about easily. I agree you were a jerk. :)
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Lawttie-xx-Hawttie
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Lawttie-xx-Hawttie (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
be sensitive. I think you need to sincerely apologize and tell her you were wrong. say exactly what you said in this post. I think she will understand you. if that doesn't work then give her some time alone and try again. the best thing you need to do is help her through this hard time. losing a loved one may seem very small but put yourself in her shoes. does this feel right?

hope this helped

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vmw2008
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vmw2008 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Haha dude seriously. Do you have nothing better to do than to post the same damn thing over and over. I find that watching a good comedy is enough for a laugh. Get a life.
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HaggardDiva
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HaggardDiva (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
I wouldn't have slapped you across the face. I would have punched you in the face, and even if you apologized in person I wouldn't accept it. At least not until I had time to heal from that wound. I hope you learned from this experience.
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Inkweaver2
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Inkweaver2 (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
Guess what, she was probably telling you because she was hurting and was hoping that talking to her FRIEND would help it go away a little. What you said was worse then a slap across the face.

How long ago did it happen? (The shorter the time the more open the wound you poured salt in.)
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boys-are-confusing
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boys-are-confusing (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
that was heartless. her dad passed away! you don't tell some1 to get over it! I don't think I would ever get over loosing my dad. ur lucky she didn't punch you in the nose or in the throat! go apoligize to her YOURSELF! don't send a friend. that's ur apology. not theirs
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gravygirl
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gravygirl (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
As everyone else has said, it was you that was out of line. You have to give people some serious leeway when they lose a parent. Maybe you wouldn't care so much, maybe you're not as attached, but lots of people are and there's nothing weird about it. If you care about your friendship at all you should comply with her demand and apologize in person.
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irish-girl-08
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irish-girl-08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
what the f*** you got your friend to apologize for you? what a coward! have you ever lost anybody you love and care about?

i did 3 people and all in the last 2years and I'm still not even half over it and I never will be and I know for a fact if someone told me what you told your friend to do I would hit them a dig as well.!

do you have any idea what its like to have someone leave you so suddenly like that and never ever going to see them or talk to them again? its heartbreaking and one of the most horrible things ever I have ever experienced is losing people I love

that is the most heartless thing you could say! get your arse over to her house and apologize in person and realize that when you do something wrong in life you have to apologize for it not get a messenger to do it for you !
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Question Asker But its easier - 5 months ago
Answerer Easier to what? - 5 months ago
Question Asker Getting my friend to it for me plus I don't want to face yet - 5 months ago
Answerer Well then your a f***ing chicken shit !! don't say or do shit you can't face up to the consequences..! - 5 months ago
Question Asker Can you do better? - 5 months ago
Answerer Do better than what? any mistake or anything I've ever done that was wrong or hurtful towards someone I have always apologized to there face - 5 months ago
Question Asker Can bring my friend with me? - 5 months ago
Answerer Jesus what are you like 8??

listen all I'm saying to you is you are the biggest coward I have ever come across if you can't figure out what you should do then keep your mouth shut from now on !! uhhh - 5 months ago
Question Asker Maybe 7 is better to say lol - 5 months ago
Answerer Well if your 7 get off this site and just go be a kid - 5 months ago
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moms2tob3
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moms2tob3 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
well I would have to say that you deserved that one. You can just tell some one to get over the death of their father and you had a friend say sorry if you were sorry you would tell her to her face you can't say something like that an expect her to be fine with everything. its going to take a long time untill she gets over her fathers death I'm still not over my fathers death and that was 8 years ago. You should learn to be more sensitive towards her feelings. ure lucky she didn't punch you in your face. death is a very sensitive issue. you should be kissing her a$$ right now not having other people apologize for you if I was you I would plan a nice fun evening for her to get her mind off of things and try not to be so mean. if your a friend you would be there for her
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He-Wins1210
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He-Wins1210 (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
Sounds to me like that friend was right. Your being a bitch. Can you imagine your father dying and someone telling you to get over it?. you can't just get over something like that. and I can't believe the way you worded this "her whining about him" she's not whining she's grieving .your just heartless. I wouldn't forgive you even if you did apologize in person so. sorry but I can't help you.
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bluexxeyes
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bluexxeyes (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
I cannot even believe that you are posting this on here. I would have slapped you more than once for that! Her dad DIED. He is NEVER coming back. She needs sympathy and love right now. You can't just tell her to forget him! He was her dad. She loved him. I lost my uncle 9 years ago and not a day goes by that I don't think about him and sometimes I even cry because I miss him so much and if I do that because of my uncle, just imagine what it would be like to lose your dad. Personally, you don't seem like a very good friend if you are saying that she is whining and then telling her to forget the person whos been there for her since day 1.

You are one lucky bastard if she accepts your apology at all.
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wounded
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wounded (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
oh, like the friend that lost her brother and you told her to forget about it?
Or like when you lost your brother and your friend told you to forget about it?

Why do some people keep playing these stupid games on this site.
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Cool-Relax I noticed that too. . .I guess some people just have nothing better to do with their lives. - 5 months ago
 

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