My friend is being bullied (just teasing) and told me not to tell. Should I tell anyway or listen to him? Once stood up for him and now the bully thinks his "girlfriend" need to protect him. He got very mad at me and say your a f***ing bitch, Why is he being a jerk? My friend is being bullied and me not to tell. I'm very confess. My other friend said I should tell a teacher. Help
Update: So talked to my friend (the one being bullied) about the abuse he's suffing And he disagree that he need to tell someone about what's going. Why is he being so unreasonable? Should I tell anyway?
5 months ago
i would listen to him and also tell him that it wasnt ok to tell you a f***ing bitch! I would tell a teacher and I also wouldn't stand up for him. I think that would even make it worse for him
Im actlee used to guys for name like that - 5 months ago
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What do you mean? guys are usually calling like that? - 5 months ago
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Bitch,slut and many (mainly from by bro) - 5 months ago
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Wow .. I would tell him to shut the f**k up !! your brother shouldnt call you like that !! and especially not any other guys - 5 months ago
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When: 5 months ago
I think if he's a guy, he should learn to stand up for himself. Bullies pick on those they think are weaker than them, so in order for him to earn any self-respect, he should learn how to stand his ground and not allow the bully to intimidate him. You could give him this advice if you wanted to. Personally, I wouldn't know why a guy would tell that to a girl unless they wanted some type of sympathy or something. Let him fight his own battles.
Really? what kind of immature bitches bully someone at 17. Well, at this age it would be embarrassing for you to do anything, so sorry I don't know of anything you should besides that good luck - 5 months ago
Could you explain HOW he is being bullied? What kind of teasing? How severe?
Depending on your answer of that, I would suggest going to a teacher and asking a hypothetical question, like, " Let's say I know this guy named John Doe, and he gets teased. Here's what happens, etc"
Do that and learn what would happen, and also find out WHY your friend doesn't want authority to get involved. I figure I know the reason, but hearing it from him would be better.
Being his being call names (hes a bit overweight but he's loss 80 pounds) like pudgey cake, and many more. - 5 months ago
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By how many people? - 5 months ago
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May 4 or 5 people - 5 months ago
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You really needed to put in your question all the info like the bully is a girl and your friend is 17. Given this, and being in high school, he needs to defend himself and try and last till high school ends.
Or if things get SO bad there's no choice, report it. Does he get death threats? - 5 months ago
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Not sure but gonna tell for whether he like it or not - 5 months ago
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Did you ask him WHY he doesn't want people to know? Did you ask the hypothetical question to the teachers?
If you go ahead and get authority involved, you could ruin this guy's life even further. Find out WHY he doesn't want them involved. - 5 months ago
You should tell. He may be mad at you, but this his safety and his feelings can be over looked slightly in a situation like this. It's in his best interest not in his opinion but you need to something before he gets hurt.
first of all, you said 'he'. guys are vain and believe themselves all powerful.
now, he's most likely being a jerk because he most likely doesn't want to be protected by a girl or anyone else.
why he wouldn't want you to tell anyone is the same reason why he's becoming a jerk to you. men are full of pride, damage to the pride means he must go on defense which means someone is going to get hurt.
don't take it personally, he's just being a guy.
whether to tell someone, depends how long he can hold grudges.
He is probably embarrassed because he's being teased. He probably didn't want you to know about it in the first place and then felt emasculated when you stood up for him. He's probably not mad at YOU, but more frustrated and embarrassed.I think he's just taking it out on you, it's a pride thing. He was wrong for calling you a f***ing bitch, if anything he should take that aggression on the people who are hurting him, not his friend!
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