ok ever since high school I have helped all my friends with their problems. I'm like their counselor or somethin but I know friends help friends in need. Lately I have been so confused wen a friend would come to me for advice and I stop and sometimes look at them like they are crazy or somethin and other days I can help them out like I have a guy friend who is also my ex that I help him in times of need and give him advice and most of the time I can't open my mouth to speak wen they all need advice and its hard to tell them that but I try to think of somethin for the moment to help them and it works for a while. Why am I so confused?
you're helping to many other people. ask yourself and others questions once in a blue moon so that you can clear your head. filling it with too many other problems will just mess it up. you got to let your emotions go once in awhile instead of being afraid that they can hurt someone else.
you help you friends and say how friends help friends, well, get them to help you once in a while and ask them things on your mind instead of vice versa.
Maybe you are or have gotten so twisted up in everyone else's problems and lives that you forgot to live yours and you forgot about the things you need to take care of in your own. You may be seem as a therapist or something to your friends, they believe you are their "Buddha", Confusious" or even their "Goddess". They look to you for answers and guidance and that is very flattering, but you need to make time to take care of yourself. Giving help and advice to my friends is what made me realize that my life is in need of some repair as well because some of things I would tell them are things I should've been telling myself in other aspects of my life. You know what I mean?
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