Do you have this problem too??

Haha this is completely true, when we're actually involved in something then it's like we have no idea what to do :/
I guess because our emotions get in the way so we can't be objective. I have this problem right now.
I've figured it out far enough to be pretty sure of what an outsider would advise me to do, and yet I still care too much to actually do it. It's really frustrating.

it is. but if everyone had the answers to everything, everything would be different and no one would have to ask anyone anything.

we give advice because we understand and we ask questions because we don't know how to figure it out ourselves and hope someone else has the answers.

you can help almost everyone, but no one, no matter how gifted in attending to others problems, can help everyone.

sometimes, though, when we were able to help everyone else, our own problems catch back up to us.

we can try to help everyone, but most of the time, ya need to help yourself once in a blue moon to understand others problems.

yes, it is funny, but it helps a lot of other people and the people who answer the questions.

I've gotten a little better at this over the years. I make myself think about what an outsider would think. It forces me to get down to the nuts and bolts of the relationship (or whatever) and then I really think about what's going on.

Yea it's kinda like if you're too far involved in the situation yourself you can't see the full picture only part of it, or sometimes only the parts you want to see. Having an outside perspective on a situation can be a great help, but a lot of people ask for advice and then don't bother following it.