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If you were in my position, would you pass this letter along or throw it away?

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The-Nash (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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I was cleaning and came across a letter I found underneath my dresser. The letter is probably close to being written two-three years ago. Now this letter is written to an ex of mine, from her mother's past boyfriend(he has passed away a while back, actually when I was dating her). And it's not an important letter, he just went away on business(I don't know what he did) and sent her a letter to keep in touch.

Now, I know it's not a big deal, but in some strange way (idk, maybe because her mother's boyfriend has passed away) I feel like I shouldn't just throw it away and I should make sure she gets it. We don't really talk but I guess we're both cool with each other we just went our own ways. And, I imagine, all I got to do is email her and get her address. Buy a stamp and mail it.

Guys and girls, Would you pass a letter along or just throw it away?

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texas-cutie
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texas-cutie (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
i would definitely pass it along. you never know it could mean a lot to her and it wouldn't be very much trouble to you.
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saklea
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saklea (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
You should def. mail her the letter. To you it might just be a meaningless letter, but I think if the writer of the letter has died, then she might want to keep it as a memory. It won't cost you much work and for old time's sake (you once loved her, right?) you should send it to her. Someone who was very close to me died some time ago and I know I would do anything to have more small things of him near me.
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lost-angel
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lost-angel (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
It wouldn't be a big deal if the person who wrote it was still alive. I would throw it away.
But since the writer passed away, I would at least let her know.
Keep the email short, simple, and to the point.
Say you found a letter from so and so, and ask her what she wants you to do with it.
Coz what if it doesn't really mean much to her anyway?
If she doesn't reply to you, like, ever, then throw it away.
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Anonymous User (Age:Over 45)      When: 5 months ago
I'd send it. It's something that was meant for her.
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GoPink
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GoPink (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
Absolutely pass it along. You said yourself it would be simple. I'm sure she would appreciate you going out of your way to get it to her, and you'll feel better about the situation as well.
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GoPink
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GoPink (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
Absolutely pass it along. You said yourself it would be simple. I'm sure she would appreciate you going out of your way to get it to her, and you'll feel better about the situation as well.
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kiroarous
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kiroarous (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
yes you should it belongs to her, the littlest things could mean the world to others.
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dohcrwd
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dohcrwd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
is your ex right, who cares
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Stoned-Fred
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Stoned-Fred (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
Without question, deliver it.
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Lifeson
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Lifeson (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Pass it along. Its hers.
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JD-Morris
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JD-Morris (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
id say give it to her

even her worst reaction now - would never be as bad as her finding out you threw it away

cause you will eventually tell her - I think you know that as well


imagine what it would be like if you did throw it away and she brings him up in conversation or phones you on his anniversary
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