when I was young I already like him. but my other girl friend also likes him. our friendship ended when my family and I went to the province for good. I'm so sad and don't know what to do, and as my defense mechanism against my loneliness I didn't communicate with them and eventually forget about them. but after 10 years we went back to manila to have our vacation. one day I didn't know that he went in our house to see me. I was not there because I went outing with my sister's friends. and then when I went back home and knew about it. it was already too late because the next day he's going to US for good. :(. I'm on denial that very moment , denying that I don't care or what but deep inside I really regret the moment that I was not able to see him, I also regret the times that I didn't go back to manila. I regret the time that I forget about them, about him. so after that I search him in friendster and I was not able to find him :(. but maybe GOD is good. on day I was surprised someone invited me in the friendster and it was him. HIM!. hmmm so we chat but he's busy and we can not have long talks,and now he already knew that my other "girl friend" has a crush him but he has no idea that I also like him. before and until now. but I was afraid to tell him because maybe he doesn't like me and maybe he likes the our friend . which is prettier and smarter than me. I don't know if I like him or I love him. I just feel that even if many years has passed there is still this indescribable feelings in me for him. I'm afraid maybe he like my other girl friend? or he likes someone else. and I don't know why the time lets us meet or communicate again? what does it mean?how can I make him love me?
He might. but you never know how he feels about you until you talk to him about it. Time does whatever it wants to, So really there is no explanation I or anyone can give for y this has happened after ten years, but what it means is that you are attracted to this guy, there is no hidden backstory to it. You really can't make anyone love you, in fact saying it like that is a little creepy. what you're going to have to do is talk to him. This isn't like you're meeting a new guy, so you can't just start hitting on him, that would be a little weird. You need to tell him how you feel and ask for a greater relationship. as for your girlfriend, you need to work something out with her over this or you will lose her friendship.
I was in the same situation you have to talk to him about how you feel, I was scared to ask him about the whole thing turns out he liked me you have nothing to lose he's no the only guy in the world! :] if he doesn't feel the same it just wasnt meant to be and there is another person out there who is meant to be so tell him how you feel who knows the possibilities are endless
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