so there is this girl I like and we have recently been talking at work , outside , on the phone and stuff like that , her birthday is coming up , she is going to be 21. but doesn't drink. so what would be a good gift?
id like to add , I don't want to be too forward on the gift , so its not awkward. but not too "friends only" gift either lol , thanks :)
well I think a bottle of a nice perfume would b neutral its not too forward not too friends only it falls in between, try to get her her favorite if you know it
I had some female "friends" in early college. I went on a trip, and when I happened to be out there, I found some items that I thought they would enjoy. These items, the total cost, taking care of all my close friends, came to about 10 dollars; the three female friends, and some guy friends, but they were things that my friends had mentioned really liking; (example: I got a toy "Quidditch ball" for a Harry Potter fan), and I did this for all my friends.
This girl FREAKED and thought that suddenly I was interested because she was one of the people I had got a gift for. Now, she had seen me give several other friends THEIR gifts, and even with all that logic, she stopped bothering with me all together; this was over a $2.00 item.
One thing I've realized is unless you're dating the girl, or you are honestly REALLY good friends, don't get her anything, especially anything personal. And believe me, I used to do sweet things all the time for people. I had a HUGE crush on a girl that worked next to me. So I made a fortune Cookie with a cute message. She freaked, and I bailed out of there, so I do have experience with this sort of thing.
Oh, and don't do it if they wouldn't do the same for you. I've had girls freak out (not in a good way) about getting a birthday card, and I had known them for YEARS and was interested only as friends. We don't talk any more.
Don't do anything, except MAYBE a card. An impersonal card. Nothing you've spent time making, as that says too much. You don't owe her anything. Trust me on this one. Most girls, in spite of what they say, probably wouldn't appreciate it, and the more personal it seems, the more it would make you look creepy. You AREN'T creepy, (at least I'd hope not!) but you will be THOUGHT OF as creepy.
And watch the romantic level. You don't want to start too strong with this girl, or she'll probably get scared of, no matter WHAT talking you've done. Ease into the relationship, if you can. When you've been dating six months, then you can start being more free to be romantic without as huge a risk of scaring her off. The sweet romantic stuff will suit you ok for marriage, but not for a first date.
No wine. No perfume. No flowers. And no Gucci sunglasses. Lol.
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