There's this one guy I work with and I really like him a lot. But there are two really bad things. The first is I don't know if he likes me back. The second is that he claims he has a girlfriend. We always hang out together and we talk about everything. There was this one incident where he got mad at me because he thought I had a guy's picture on my phone, I mean why should he care right. Or does that mean he was jealous? That's where I'm confused.
I don't know weather he's sending me signals or not. We go on break together and at our work place people think we're dating. He always comes looking for me and calls me a nickname no one else does. We play around and tell each other different things too. I always laugh with him, and before we became friends we'd always catch ourselves starring into each others eyes. I mean I think? Then there's the girlfiend part. I do ask and he says they've only been together for a month.(But he always says I should find a guy like him and how he's really sweet and all this stuff.) Is it wrong that I like him and we're really close even though he say's he has a GF? Does it seem like he likes me? I'm reallly confused and I reaaly like him so if any one has any advice, feel free to throw it at me ^-^ Thanks
BugginMint
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
In my humble opinion, it sounds like one of a few things.
Either he made up the girlfriend to make himself sound more appealing (hey, girls like me...). Some guys can't embrace the idea of being single or admitting it. Maybe it even started out as a little lie because he figured it would go nowhere and now he has to stick to it.
Or he is figuring out if you are going to be available if things don't work out with the GF. Which would probably be a sign he is already seriously considering this. Some guys like to know they have the possibility of another relationship before ending the present one. There is also the possibility that he is looking for someone to cheat with and he is still trying to figure out if you are someone who is ok with that. I've seen guys do both of these things many times.
Or maybe he just likes head games. At any rate it sounds like he likes you. He was obviously jealous about the pic on your phone. Ask to see a picture of his girlfriend. Figure out if she exists. Then it shouldn't be hard to figure out what he is looking for.
If you find out he really does have a girlfriend, it should narrow it down to judging his character. If you don't think she exists, be honest and tell him it's too bad because it would be fun to go on a date if he wasn't in a relationship.
And no, it's not wrong to have feelings for someone with a girlfriend. I'd say it's overwhelmingly normal.
Ok well first of all he is totally into you or he is just playing you for your looks but I doubt that if he cares that you have a guys pic on your phone then that means he cares about you and that's a good sign for a crush! Also how long have you guys been working together cause if its about a month or a lil over he's is definitely talking about you and giving you a sign that he likes you and wants you to make the first move. If my advice is wrong still tell him how you feel because if you guys stare into each others eyes then you have some chemistry with him. Oh ya about the month thing about his girlfriend and he's been going with her for a month so he might be talking about you good luck!
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