I know a lot of guys tend to spend every possible minute they can with the girl they like (or girlfriend), in the BEGINNING of the relationship. Then after awhile, they start to lessen everything. Lessen time with her, lessen calls, texts, flowers, visits, etc. I know it doesn't mean they lost interest or love for the girl, but then what happened?
Putting personality, and looks aside, I want to know what keeps a guy's interest, and explain if possible :)
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Unpredictable women. I never know what's going to happen next with her. (e.g. Freak out, get mad, be happy, lovey dovey)
Unavailable women. I can hardly get a hold of her because she is always busy with friends or work or school.
Always available women. She is always there when I need her. (e.g. When I'm having a bad day, or I need to vent, or I'm bored, I know I can depend and rely on her)
Intelligent/Confident women. She always contradicts what I say. She hardly agrees with me, and we debate alot. She speaks her mind, and doesn't agree to EVERYTHING I say or do.
in the beginning I like to spend as much time as possible.it's the getting to know you excitement period and it's fun.over time it's nice to establish some balance.
think of it this way.when a guy starts to balance how much time he spends with you, it's an attempt to make sure that the two of you last.it's honestly a good thing, though I know sometimes it doesn't feel that way.
Alright, I went with the intelligent and confident woman, but your description is pretty retarded. That's not an intelligent woman. That's a pain in the ass woman.
A woman that is smart, has a similar sense of humor to me (sarcastic, one liners, etc.), and doesn't depend on me for everything is a very attractive woman and would definately keep me interested.
Alicia Keys, Natassia Malthe, and Laura Harring are examples of women I would kill to be with.
LOL Okay, my bad. Shouldve titled it as Pain in the ass type - Thanks for your input though. I like that kind of woman too, wait.. what? - 3 months ago
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Haha. Uh oh. Looks like someone might be batting for both teams....Just don't steal any of my girls away from me. - 3 months ago
Just be yourself, that's what I want. As long as you are intelligent enough to hold your own in a conversation, you can balance a checkbook, and you always tell the truth, then the rest doesn't matter. Well, don't be a drug addict, that one needs to be on the list.
I kinda relate to D. (giggle) But still that would just annoy anyone.
Spice up the sex, and don't spend every minute with the guy, hang out with friends, and give you both some space. Travel with him, and spoil each other. Have farting contests, water balloon fights, and just be like kids together. Guys like a fun girl, not one obsessed with shopping, their hair, and money.
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