So one of my best friends has been dating this guy for almost a year now, he had broke up with her a couple months ago but a week later they were back together. So in my opinion and the opinion of many of my other friends is that her boyfriend is a total ass and is only making her life worse by hanging out with him. Since they have started dating my friend has become a very heavy drinker and started getting caught up in drugs, as well she seems to begin to care a lot less about things she used to be dedicated to (like dancing and school). I know that this has only started because of her boyfriend but she doesn't seem to care that she is alienating all of her friends. o and by the way I haven't talked to her face to face in more than a month and only twice on the computer, where we used to talk everyday.
SO I was basically wondering if I should confront my friend about how I feel about her boyfriend and if yes how should I go about it? I know she is my friend and if she was a true friend that what I say shouldn't affect our relationship but we are going into our last year of high school and I really wish I could spend time with her but I refuse to spend time with her boyfriend.
If you confront her, and tell her what you think her boyfriend is doing to her, you'll simply drive her into his arms.
she wanted a change in the normalcy of her relationships and her life, although this experience will not lead her to a healthy lifestyle, it will be beneficial for her when she does finally realize what she wants out of this life, and leaves the bastard because he is not in her future.
she'll wake up, it's just a matter of time.
what you can do however, is make innocent statements like "we never get to talk anymore", or "we never go shopping anymore together". something to that effect.
As a friend, try to spend some time and explain the things to her. Don't directly go into confrontation. Point out that the things like that are bad and make her realize that she is doing the same. Give her some time to think and confront her step by step.
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