I was just wondering. How do I know if I should go to a psychiatrist? I have self confidence issues sometimes, and feel really down in the dumps. I feel as though I am ugly and the list goes on. I think I should talk to someone, but if I did go, I don't know what to say to them. I don't know what is wrong with me?!?! I am scared that they will just say, "nothing is wrong with you, why are you here?" Maybe everyone goes through this. But I don't want to be unhappy sometimes, I want to be happy and feel good about myself most of the time. Does anyone else ever feel unhappy about themselves? How do you stop feeling this way? Because sometimes I feel as though I can take on the world, and other days . . . well, not so much.
I'd talk to an MD (non-psychiatrist) or friends/family about it first. For issues like yours, maybe medical help isn't necessary. You just need moral support and reassurance.
All of us feel inadequate at times, and we don't always feel ready to take on the world either.
If it's getting worse, affecting your sleep or appetite, that's one indication that you may need professional help. Otherwise, just try to look on the positive things in your life and talk with people older and more experienced.
If you have a good relationship with a general practitioner-physicians, they can recommend a range of options for you.
My parents say nice things about me all the time, but for some reason I just can't believe them. I think that my parents just say that because they are my parents. - 2 months ago
You go and say exactly what you're saying here. Your problem could be psychological or pharmacological.
If you feel that you need to go, then make an appointment. Might be the best decision for you to make. Just my opinion, but if you're feeling sad all the time then depression may be the issue. It's very treatable.
Psychiatrists are for if you think you need medication, right now if you think you really need to you should probably see a psychologist. They won't laugh at you or think you shouldn't be there, because their job is to listen and help.
It also depends on how long you've felt this way too. Everyone feels bad sometimes, it just depends on how long.
What is the difference between a psychiatrist and a psychologist? I know that psychiatrist is for meds. but what about a psychologist? - 2 months ago
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As I said, "their job is to listen and help". Both psychiatrists and psychologists offer cognitive and behavioral therapy, advice, help, support, caring, but only psychiatrists can prescribe medication.
So psychologists are just caring friends who try and help you to feel better. - 2 months ago
You should see a therapist if your problems are affecting your daily life. For example, I have anxiety problems. I feel really uncomfortable around other people, and it affects the way I function at school and other places, which makes me feel like I'm missing out on things (which, of course, is upsetting). So, I made an appointment at the counseling center on campus.
When you see someone, just tell them why you're there. Like you said, you want to be happy and feel good about yourself. They'll ask you questions too. It's not like it's all on you to solve your problems. That's why they're there.
I think you should go and don't worry a professional will never tell you why are you here. just give it a try maybe it's something simple that you can heal in no time, while if you waited maybe it would turn to something more serious (hope not), don't let yourself down it's ur right to do what is best for you and no one would ask you why you need it even if they asked they should be supporting u.
yeah I felt that unhappy and was in counselling for four years which didn't help at all to be honest because I'm just as bad as I was when I went counselling,if anything I always felt worse coming out after counselling,and as for not knowing what to say don't worry about that they will ask you questions ,but it sounds like your just a normal girl who has there ups and downs
yeah I felt that unhappy and was in counselling for four years which didn't help at all to be honest because I'm just as bad as I was when I went counselling,if anything I always felt worse coming out after counselling,and as for not knowing what to say don't worry about that they will ask you questions ,but it sounds like your just a normal girl who has there ups and downs
Counselling made you feel worse? That is awful. So you just stopped the counselling. Do you feel better with yourself now, or do you still feel unhappy sometimes? Thanks for saying I'm normal though. :) - 2 months ago
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I don't feel better no to be honest I have serious self issues with myself , yeah it made me feel worse a lot worse id go in ok and come out feeling ten times worse,i feel unhappy a lot and I know a lot of people do too - 2 months ago
This is something every girl experiences at one point. I used to struggle with self confidence issues myself and I always felt as if I wasn't pretty enough. My family and friends would always tell me otherwise but like you, I thought they were just saying that to make me feel better or because I was their friend or their family. In the beginning that would be all I would think about until one day I got tired of feeling this way. I looked into the mirror and learned to love everything about me. I would only think of the positive and try to push the negative aside. I would wake up in the morning picturing good things and imagining all the great things to come. After I pushed the cloud I had lived with for so long I noticed how wrong I was in thinking that way. It was then that I realised how many guys liked me, had a crush on me, or found me attractive. Ofcourse my self esteem shot up and my relationships with both guys and girls changed for the better and after that it was like a snowball effect. Attitude is EVERYTHING. If you aren't the best looking girl but you have confidence oozing out of your pores people will deffinatley notice that and react to it. The only thing I can tell you to do is to look in the mirror and find what's really bothering you. Tackle the things going on on the inside and the rest will follow. Hope this helps!
Thank you for your comment. It is easier said then done though. I will try to feel more confident in myself. I don't know why I feel that way. I do have a lot going for me, I just seem to always look at the negative side of life, I guess. - 2 months ago
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