When I quit my job back in January,because I was tired of six years of horseshit and lousy pay,I really thought that I could get a new job within three months. The reason I thought that was because I always could get a new job no than three of four months. It is now the end of August going on September, so I have gotten pregnant and getting ready to have a baby by now. So now I have a new job with pretty good pay,but in between the jobs there was only bad luck and karma. when it comes to my family,I knew that looked at me with shame because of my life. I was told that I failed in life as a daughter and as a sister. I am always the one that puts everyone needs first before my own no matter what results are. I am always the on that gets treated shit just I am the oldest out of four girls. They put everything on top of my shoulders and except me to be perfect about everything. Now things have been getting worse for the past several months, to the point that I really don't to them anymore. I mean,I tired to do my best in helping my parents with house cleaning and of my two youngest sisters not helping me out, my mom doesn't believe that I clean anything. My sisters, mainly the two younger ones,thinks of me as a shit and failed as the oldest sister. My father believes that I don't care about my life and blames for my ex-boyfriend breaking up with me. When it comes to my ex-boyfriend, he broke up with me back in June, you read more about him on the "I want to know if love worth this?" Right now, he's letting me stay at his place until I got a job in his area, buy a car and find a place of my own. People say that I should be happy because I got this new great job. Yet, I don't see why I should because I only got after lost everything and everyone in my life.
you haven't failed as a daughter or a sister, you have just had a lot of hard times.as for your family just try and forget about the things they say (I know it will be hard)
and yes you should be happy that you got a great new job, and you haven't lost everything and everyone in your life they will soon realise what hard times youve taken on.they are in the wrong for doing that to you and for expecting you to be pefect with all the pressure on you (but they might do thuis because they see you as the strongest in the family)
so remember cheer up, you haven't failed at anything, and when things get tough and they will, justy think that soon you will have a little bundle of joy that will think the world of you, and won't leave ur side no matter what
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