Why do I hate men? I never have been in a relationship, but every crush I have ever had, I always ended up with a broken heart. Now I hate all men, and I hate my life! Now I feel like closing off from the world! Why can't I be happy? Why are all guys jerks? Or are they, because I just feel so bitter right now, and depressed that I always have to have to be like this.
FIRST OF ALL beleive me there is somthing called god is not it and what for this closing off from the world(its really stupid) i think you just did not get the right guys ending up in thinkin that all are same ya you may say you are all fine so you are saying so,i know all these things etc. i can only say everyone has problems and everyone shall till humans exist if everyone starts thinkin like you no one shall remain on earth this is neither new nor is to be surprised off u need a slight mood change , go sight seeing or vacation for just a change, afterwards try some new thins like learning to play some sport or just meet up wit old friends , meditating etc.if possible ones you get a little cooled start to tackle the old problems but without over indulgence, it may spoil the fun, go step by step,eat the cake piece by piece lest indigestion god has got somthin more beautiful for you in store so he didnot let the other rels happen i have myself come out of it and I know people who have also done so may god bless you with the strength to blast through ur problems go on its a small thing.
You were fine with damning an entire sex, so I'm sure you can handle hearing this.
You're taking your crushes too seriously; if you're not dating someone, you cannot blame them for doing something you don't like. It's not their job to please you. Think about this rationally -- a crush is. well, interest. A one-sided spark. I can imagine you being disappointed if a crush turns out to merely be a fantasy, but I think calling it a heart-breaking event is a bit melodramatic.
Hating men because you've so far failed to find a boyfriend is childish and petty. Being childish and petty will not help you find a boyfriend - trust me on that. So stop. If you hate your life because you don't have a man, get out more. There is more to life than men. If you hate your life because your life sucks, endeavor to make it better rather than sitting at your desk moaning about it!
Accept that guys aren't all the same, and by association they're not all jerks. Just as all women aren't superficial gold-diggers. I'm sure that you'll no doubt find me to be a jerk, but know that people like me are in the minority. Most will try to comfort you and pat you on the back despite the fact that your problems are just barely-veiled, woe-is-me emo tendencies that are becoming increasingly more common. And increasingly more annoying.
you don't hate men you hate sum kind of guys who don't appreciate you and that's different , theirs good guys still out there and waiting for someone like you to take care of , you need to slow down in every start with any guys to undersant him and don't make the same mistake over and over ,
I understand how you feel. After meeting a number of bad boys, being the shoulder for my girlfriends to cry on when their relationships fail. its hard for me to really see that there are good guys out there. I wonder sometimes when people say there are good guys, What is a good guy? I know a guy shouldn't be abusive but can a guy really be faithful and not just want sex? OK, so this has lead to me being more into my job and having fun. No, I didn't go lesbian or become a complete feminist, I'm straight. If true love does exist well it hasn't happened for me and I'm actually preparing myself to be an old rich woman with 70 cats.
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