Ok so I got a membership to the Gym with my family, and each member get 3 session free with a Personal Trainer, its pretty cool I never had a trainer, so I decided to try it out, it turned out I got a really hot trainer which is good and bad at the same time, well I'm a girl so you know how we all start reacting on a hot guy, well that's me! I had my 3 sessions and now when ever I go to the Gym I can't work out the way I used to before I met him, because I feel like he's watching at me. wich is not true but still, Anyways my question I end up liking my trainer and want to get to know him better, should I start flirting with him or should I just ask if he want to go for a cup of coffee sometimes. Need some help here girls. And Guys what kind of question a girl should ask if she likes you?
In my case, I would suggest that you just ask him straight up. He is a man and the feminine hints often do not register with men. Additionally, why play the same game every other single woman he has trained is playing? Men are frank and, get to the point, if you are interested, say so and see what he has to say. If he says no, you haven't lost anything except possibly deceiving yourself into believing something is there, which is why you feel he is watching you.
On the flip side, he may appreciate your respect and frankness enough to get to know you better.
One last thing: No one who doesn't know you well can really reject you. Typically they are rejecting a stereotype, memory, or idea, that may, or may not, have anything to do with you. God loves you, likes you, and enjoys you. He may not like some of the things you do but, He enjoys you. Don't settle for less in someone else.
Thanks for the advise, but I m a shy girl, I won't just come up to the guy and ask him that easily, I'm not even sure if he's single and how old he is, and don't know how to ask those random questions either, maybe he's just trying to help to achieve my goals. - 2 months ago
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Whatever his goals are, I would suggest you open up some conversations with him and see where he takes it. Start with something simple, like a greeting that leaves him answering an open ended question. Instead of asking how he's doing, ask how his family is doing. His answer will let you know a lot. Ask him what he thinks of your outfit. Ask him what he did over the weekend, and see what his eyes light up about, when he is talking about it. Open ended questions aren't answered yes or no. - 2 months ago
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