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Saygoodnitenai

Is it ever too late to find a friend/friends?

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Saygoodnitenai (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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I am now 22 years old and I have no friends. I hang with my family or my boyfriend most of the time. I think I'm breaking the record of going through life with no friends and I don't think that that is a good thing. How do I go about finding *true* friends -- one that is willing to learn me inside&out and be there at all time? .will I find a friend or is it really too late if I hadn't had friends from childhood/ or so far? I mean I have had associates but that's not the same as friends. I do not hang out with them. I am in need of Girlfriends( so to say!)

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martyfellow (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
First, don't be down on yourself. Friendship isn't valued generally in the mainstream culture in the US, that's the first thing almost any foreigner will tell you.

It won't be easy since most of us think about each other only in the short term. But look for someone who shares your interests, join a club that is organized around your main interests. Look for someone else who seems lonely.

You know what? You'll see them right away!

Then you have to decide if they are willing to be 'true' friends. First of all, they have to BELIEVE in long term friendship! Just ask them if they do! You should be able to tell by the way they answer, by the look in their eyes, if they do or not. Try not to pay attention to what they say because that might be an excuse or a cover.
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Question Asker Good suggestions -- will try. Thanx for your reply. - 2 months ago
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I don't think it's too late but it's pretty common now a days that young girls such as yourself don't have friends because they spend all of their time with their boyfriends and when they're not with their boyfriends, they are on the phone with them, texting them or talking about them. Why not try hanging out with an associate from work? And then perhaps she'll introduce you to more people and eventually you can call a couple of them friends. Good luck :)
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Question Asker I am the only worker at my workplace I take care of everything. I have to bosses but there male and a lot older and are hardly in. - 2 months ago
Answerer I guess that doesn't work...ever thought about reconnecting with someone from the past? like an old friend from school or something. - 2 months ago
Question Asker I was quiet. I don't have anyones number. I had one friend then but was a guy and we started dating and that hurt the friendship we once had and I tried again later in life but he's changed so much now that I can not even bring myself to be his friend. I just hope to find someone to occassionally call me and ask if I wanted to go he or do that or hang and do a blockbuster night, lolz I don't know . I just never had gfs and get sad or discouraged when I see ever other person around with that. - 2 months ago
Answerer Awe :( you don't have a facebook or myspace or something like that where you can search people up, it's super easy and helps you connect with people you have't talked too in ages. - 2 months ago
Question Asker I had it but erased those pages I got bored with the sites and people on my friendslist weren't true friends or wanted something else and current boyfriend had a problem with some sites I was on so I erased them all entirely. I just seem to have missed the boat I guess. - 2 months ago
Answerer Don't even worry about it...when you've decided to give up...it'll happen, you'll have a friend in no time :) - 2 months ago
 
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