There's a guy at school , that I like.alot. and he's been showing the tell tale signs ,like staring , smiling , taking the same route as me to classes even though his class is on the other side. My friend and I overheard his best friend and his brother talking about how he's "going to make a move" when we were walking past the skatepark , and they were sitting in the tunnel thing, talking. Coversation as follows: BestFriend: He's crazy about her, and they barely know each other.Do you think that *my name* likes him back? Brother: For his sake ,yep. He's going to make a move on Monday. BestFriend: ****! Monday? He's gonna be destroyed if she disses him. Brother: Yeah , I know , but a lot of the 9's & 8's dig her and their saying things about what they want to do to her and.he's getting pissed about it. BestFriend: Shit. ********************************************* Then they just shrugged and started talking about skateboards.
I am guessing making a move is asking me out.but it could also be actually talking to me instead of just staring.The problem is I really do like him , and I feel grateful that he likes me , but I am not ready for a relationship.especially with someone I barely know. And my parents are going to be picky about it (they think skaters are hooligans) . I don't know what to do , or say when he askes. I want to say 'yes' but I am not ready. If I say 'no' straight up , what if he gets over me? I know I won't get over him.5 months liking someone you barely know doesn't just disappear that fast.
If there a way to respond without rejecting or accepting? What should I do?
u don't have to reject him, you can simply talk to him first, when he asks you out say that ur not ready, but let him know that you do like him. basically tell him that you wana get to know him first and that ur don't wana jump into anything ur not sure about.
tell him that school is a good place to start hanging out and getting to know each other. if yall have the same lunch or anything like that spend that time together. during passing periods yall can talk for 5-10 mins.
that way you get the best of all the good out there. for 1, you get to know each other. 2, you take things slowly. 3, yall build chemistry between yall. 4, it breaks the ice.
and trust me, when yall are ready, u'll go out in public and start dating like you should. but ur relatinship will be stronger than most people that jump into anything.
Well sweety, you really have to make a decision one a way or the other there is no middle ground. If you do turn him down be honest and tell him why. don't make it sound like an excuse--elaborate. Tell him you do like him though and if eh can wait maybe things will change from your heart. Let him know though that you won't be pissed if he can't wait -- that s only fair.
You can always decide to date him, but tell him you need to take is slow--keep it light and casual until you can take it further--
either way be honest about where you are at--if he really likes you, he will understand.
heck--even show him these posts--let him know that you think he is cool enough to be really worried about how to approach him--
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