i decided I want a relationship. and I think it would be better to become friends with a guy and then date him because if he is a good friend, he would be a great boyfriend. plus we could get to know each other better through friendship instead of going out and then finding out all this crap you wish you would have known lol. but most guys don't really want to be "friends" they either want to be FWBs or nothing at all so how do I meet a good guy to be friends with?
You are one of a kind. when girls I know have guy friends or I have been friends with know you want to take it further then they freak out and get mad at you. your right the logic is there that if you have a good guy friend then yall should get along and be great as boyfriend and gf. well the way to get a guy friend is to know one that does has had deep relationships and has had many experiences. these are the guys that know there is more than fooling around. you have to show by not flirting at all but still being friendly that you can have an intelligent conversation with him but not want to make out. it can be hard especially if you are a hottie. haha. but yeah. if you do find one that is like this and you think yall could go good together then you must also make the first move. I know its different for you as a girl to do this. but like I said if a guy has a hot friend girl they are most often dying to tell her but are afraid to lose a friendship to her not being attracted to him like that.
great technique but like you said most guys don't like that way , honestly I totally agree with you, did you try the online facebook,myspace ,ect .maybe you'll find what you're looking for . good luck
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