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How do you stop cutting?

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xxamberxxquimby (Age:Under 18)     When: A month ago
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ok, for about 3 years I have been cuttin. I have tryed to stop but once I get mad I go crazy with a knife. if I can't find one, I will use anything to make me bleed. I don't know how to stop any ideas an don't give me shit like, that's bad you should cutt, whats wrong with you

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Hercules (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
Well, cutting is usually a sign of trying to relieve some other kind of pain. If this is the case, I would suggest asking your guardian (mom or dad) if you can see a therapist. The easiest way to stop cutting is to remove the pain that's making you do so in the first place, so seeing a therapist should help alleviate those pains.

And also, some things, like addictions, or cutting, you pretty much just have to stop cold turkey.
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Question Asker Well I have tryed telling people they waNTED TO SEND ME TO A mental hospital, I also punch walls,trees,bricks, anything hard, and I bite - A month ago
Answerer Is there anyone you know who you can talk to about all these feelings? - A month ago
 

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karenk (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
Oh I'm sorry =[, um well its true that most people that like cut do it because they are trying to relieve a pain or like sadness from something else so umm maybe you should see a therapist or there are just like telephone lines you can call just because then maybe that would be someone to talk to and then you could relieve your pain by talking instead of hurting yourself. Maybe talk to your parents about it and then they could maybe help you or a friend, brother, sister, cousin, aunt, uncle. Really I think anyone would probably be helpful for you I mean even someone on here lol I don't know but ya. I hope this helps.
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Cool-Relax (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
I agree with Hercules and gravygirl that seeing a therapist is the best way to get help. But people generally cut because they don't know how to express their emotions properly. You need to find some other outlet. When someone upsets you or makes you mad, you have to tell them that instead of going for a knife. You're punishing yourself for feeling a certain way, or you're blaming yourself, but it's not your fault.
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Question Asker I have tryed telling people they just want to ship me off to the mental hospital, I also sumtimes punch trees,walls,bricks, and bite - A month ago
Answerer There really is no point for you to go to a mental hospital. As long as you're not a threat to anyone, they can't even hold you against your will.

Is there anyone else you could talk to, like a school psychologist? It doesn't make sense that the only option anyone's given you is to go to a mental hospital. Instead of sending you to a therapist who provides just as much help, they're allowing your behavior to continue. - A month ago

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gravygirl (Age:30 to 35)      When: A month ago
Honey, this is a big problem. No one here is really going to be able to set you straight. You need pro help with this one. Please find a professional therapist and go to him or her. I think that's your best chance for moving beyond this.
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Question Asker Cutt'm not the only thing, I punch walls, trees and bite. I tryed telling people but they want to send me of to the mentel hospital - A month ago
Answerer Why are you so angry? - A month ago
Question Asker Because of my mother and brother and the f***ing past always biteing me in the ass, I just am so f***ing mad all the time, I just wish I could dissapear and die - A month ago
Answerer You really need professional help. Your problems can be overcome, but I think you need someone who knows how to handle them better than anyone visiting this site. I don't think you need to be locked up, just seeing someone and talking out your anger is bound to help at least somewhat. - A month ago
 
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