Is size everything to guys?

Everyone here is saying "it's all preference". I really don't believe most of that. It is true, most every guy I know prefers a skinnier girl. Yes there are some people who will say the opposite, but I garuntee the majority will want a slimmer trim.

it depends on the guy, in general all the girls have an equal chance, but if you and this 'skinny' girl are going for the same guy then it matters, every guy has a perferance of what he looks for in a girl, me personally I would look at the skinny girl first as I perfer the slimmer girls (providing there not to thin there is limit, RIBS ARE BAD) but if a girl with a few more curves came up to me when I didn't have my eye on anyone else then I'd at least have abit of a flirt with her. every guy is different eventually u'll find one that likes you for u, just last night I saw a guy about my age going out with a girl that would only be call fat by anyone who was being honest. just find your guy

guys have different prefferences.
for instance me myself, I love women with cute faces, body comes second.
some guys preffer body over faces, everybody is different.

Not really, I would have taken my chances on curvy one any day. But its always more than size that attracts me. The gal got heaps of other things too that catches the eye

This is what we look at frist the face, then we go hmmm she's hot then we look at her body and if she's big we go damn she's got a pretty face but not a good body, or we go she's got an alright face but damn she has a smoking body. I prefure the typical blonde skinny girls but that's just me, and the reason is hey if I can keep myself in good shape then I would want a girl who keeps herself in shape, now she doesn't have to be annorexic or anything. So if you like your body the way it is then don't change a thing but if you want to change and keep up with the other girls, then hit the gym but hey its your choice.

It's all a matter of preference.

It has a lot to do with the guys preferences. If he has some bias towards one side for whatever reason then it's only natural he will look at one over the other. Personally size doesn't matter as much as personality to me. Being too skinny, in my opinion, is even more unattractive then being overweight. I'd say that the ideal weight would be where she's not overeating or starving herself.

You may be right for some guys, but not all guys. I for one prefer the curvy girl over the thinner girl most of the time. I also like brunettes. Body shape and size preferences for guys vary just like with everything else. Yes, the media will tell you that the supermodel figure and everything is all guys want, but that's far from reality. In fact it's down right wrong. I've said it before, the only major thing is you have to be healthy. If your weight is causing you health problems then there's a problem, this goes for either side of the spectrum. Beyond that there are guys who like all types of women and all shapes. Just because the media brainwashed a ton of the male population doesn't mean all guys buy into that idea. And anyway, beauty stems not only from outward appearance, but from who you are. The most popular supermodel could be very unattractive if she had a horrible personality. But all of this is also a moot point because the one thing that matters 100% of the time every time is that you're happy with yourself and who you are. Don't get discouraged if some guys don't like you, because there will be other guys who will. The guy who was looking only at the thinner girl isn't the guy who you. But if you keep your eyes open you'll see that some guys will be looking past the thinner girl to you.

I think as long as you are in shape and proportionate you can be attractive to guys. I don't know what kind of guys you are trying to attract, but I know a lot of guys who don't think that thin is everything. What if she has big boobs, nice sized butt, a small waist and isn't fat? She's not skinny but I'm pretty sure she would turn some heads. Just as long as you are fit and look good you would be attractive.

NO! I feel they should'nt discrimante I mean after all most of my friends are skinner than me but most guys goes for personality than looks.So basically your thick! I get the same thing but the guys always go for me than any of my skinner friends! I guess because I know how to carry myself so therefor I fell you shouldnt care love the way look! Don't let that worry you!

unfortunately yeah your right. I'm skinny, like extremely athletic very nice body but ugh! my face ha ha. if tex151 is right then I'm screwed cause I won't get past the first part very often ha ha. well if ur not unhealthy fat then who really cares? if that's the reason why a guy won't date you then he obviously isn't right in the first place. that's why I kinda think that girls that are bigger and not very attractive are lucky cause when they meet a guy, he may not be the greatest looking but most likely they are hella nice and chill but "hot" girls end up with the jerks in life.

i don't no this but a guy SHOULD LIKE a girl they can bounce on

Guys need physical attraction. For most of them, being thin provides this. So yeah, if you put a thin girl next to a curvy girl, most will look at the thin girl. That's just how it is.

any guy should like you the way you are if he is interested in you size shouldnt matter guys don't always like a girl that is skin and bones.

most guys just prefer a healthier girl .