How do I deal?

call child services or something. this isn't 'normal'. Parents don't wish upon their children's death.

Your mom needs to get help and you need to get out!

I don't wanna sound mean, but your mom needs to get psychological help. It's normal to fight with your child but she's verbally abusing you by saying she wish she didn't have you and your awful. It's not healthy that she says she wants to get into a car accident and die. You also need to not put the pressure of you being perfect 100% of the time, you need to make mistakes and be a young adult. You could call social services, or talk to a guidance counselor at school, talk to another relative about it. Is your mom depressed, going through a separation, job loss, does she drink alot? Has she been like this all your life? Do you have siblings and is she this way towards them?
You need to tell someone and get yourself out of this situation It's not healthy and it could get much worse in the worse case scenario she could start hitting you or something. I know it may bother you to turn in your own mom but you gotta think this will help you and help her if she's trying to cope with something but takes it out on you.

Just please tell someone you can confide in or if you wanna be discreet tell someone you have a friend and want to know where you can get more info for her/him on where to go or who to turn to!

I hope for the best for ya! and remember *YOURE A GOOD PERSON, AND WHAT SHE SAYS ABOUT YOU ISN"T TRUE!*

The way your mom treats you isn't right. I know parents get frustrated sometimes, but she shouldn't wish you were never born just because you rolled your eyes. My mom can be pretty hard on me too (yelling at me for being disrespectful when all I did was have my own opinion), but she never tells me she wishes she could do things over or anything along those lines. Granted, I'm in therapy now anyway; I don't think parents always realize how much the things they say affect us.

Try talking to your mother about the way she speaks to you. How does she think it makes you feel when she says she wishes you were never born? What if someone she cared about said those things to her?

If that doesn't work, talk to someone else. Try talking to a family member first--someone who could talk to your mom about the way she treats you, and maybe someone who you could move in with if it comes to that. Or talk to one of your friends' parents if you feel comfortable doing that. But no matter who you talk to, Child Services could end up stepping in.

listen maybe ur mom is just stressed mothers have lifes to I'm sure when she gets mad at you she says things she doesn't mean just out of the blue sometimes people take things out on people they love the most because they know in the long run that they will forgive them do something nice like make your mom breakfast in the morning and show her you apressate all that she does for u.

Drama queen much? (I mean your mother.)

Your mom sounds vicious. I was a good kid, much like you. I almost couldn't disrespect my parents because I was raised right, but as a teenager sometimes it happens. It's why it's referred to as "teenage rebellion."

You have three choices, really. You can try to talk to your mother, explain to her that you do respect her and appreciate what she's done, but that sometimes you can't help it. Try to connect your behavior to her own at your age. Try to compromise and ignore her words. If that doesn't work, Option 2 is another family member. I had severe issues with my step-parents, and my grandparents and aunt knew it. Both offered to let me move in with them, but I didn't because it wasn't as bad as your situation. If involving a grandparent, aunt, uncle, someone will help, either by you moving in with them or them talking to your mom, try it. Option 3, a counselor at school. Tell them what is going on, see what they advise. Most likely, though, this route can end in Child Services being involved and you in a foster home or something, if she's deemed emotionally abusive. I would definitely try communication and relatives first.

But this isn't normal. Your parent shouldn't be like this. Every parent says things they don't mean at sometime, and my mom used to joke about herself still contemplating abortion when we would do something silly. The difference? I never doubted it was her joking around, and I never felt anything this harsh with my parents. I was rarely yelled at, and when my step-parents got mean, my parents stepped in and set the rules. My step-father once told my sister she needed to "just die already" and my mom hauled off and hit him. So obviously, what you're going through is not normal, not healthy, and you definitely need someone to interfere. There is most likely something deeper going on with your mom, and it will explode one day.