yes we all think that all guys are the same we think you are all cheaters and liars and only want one thing we will only think that until you guys prove too us that you are not cheaters
I have a tendency to think that all guys are the same (most guys, anyway). Not in terms of personality or anything like that, but on some underlying level. Like the way they see/treat girls, etc.
I have to agree with what sballer5 said--we're looking for that one guy who will prove us wrong.
I'm a guy and yeah there is an underlying level of guyness which is just human nature. I once told my girlfriend not to worry about it (even though I never do this since I have started going out with her) "It's never more than a glance if someone or something catches my eye, just remember you're the one that caught my heart" and she loves me for it :D I love her too! I am very happy! - More than a year ago
i think we say things like that as a defense mechanism. like, most of us believe in somebody coming to sweep us off our feet (or something), but after being disappointed a few times, it's easier to say men are all the same, they all suck, etc. and wait for one to prove us wrong than to say men are great and be proven wrong tons of times before we find a good one.
I'm about to be 22yrs old. I would say I feel all men are the same. they are. But here's the thing: there are some that are different out there I've met them, but generallly deep down some assets are the same. men are men boys are boys gentlemen are gentlemen dogs are dogs some just combine
well up until last month, I believed that all guys weren't the same. but when a guy proves to me that he can't keep his eyes (and thoughts) on just one girl, it really f***s with me and my faith in men. but normally, most women give almost anyone who likes them a chance, just don't look at anyone infront of her, and don't tell her if you look at other girls, and make sure that if you do- make sure she NEVER knows. because then, you are no longer a man, but a statistic
i think most guys are similar when it comes to dating a girl (like how they act and treat a girl, what they want, etc.), but I think it's wrong for anybody to categorize ALL boys the same because they are not.
To the extent that all girls have the same opinion about all guys, yes. :P Way to use a sweeping generalization to ask about another sweeping generalization!
A more productive answer - We live in an era where monogamy is usually cherished, but because we're not naturally monogamous this can lead to, eh, problems. Men know what women want. Women know what men want. We don't want the same things. Yet, to my infinite amusement, people always seem *so* surprised when someone does exactly what you knew they wanted to do! In another display of the previously mentioned sweeping generalization, women want a man who is only interested in them. Which of course he isn't; not solely, anyway -- men want women. The more the merrier. But, knowing what women want we go along with the whole monogamy thing. We pretend.
When a man finds a woman who is convinced he isn't interested in other women, we call that a relationship. When a woman finds out that the man still *gasp* finds other women attractive, and has acted on that finding, we call that a break-up. At this point 'all' women start to think that 'all' men are the same. Which indeed we are. The difference is whether or not we choose to act on our instincts and desires, or strive for the fairytale image that women have chosen for us. Most men do the former in their earlier years, and --when they're no longer capable of competing with younger men-- the latter in their later years.
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