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My brothers are driving me insane

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Nut-Meg1453 (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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My brothers are driving me insane. I have two older brothers. Well one of them decided to cheat on his girlfriend (call him David) she threw him out. David lived with our other brother, Jeremey (not he's real name).

Until David slept with Jeremey's wife (he's divorcing her now). So he beat the shit out of him then made him leave. Now David is living with me and my boyfriend. My brother have been very lazy he won't pick himself up he since got kick out.

My boyfriend and me are fed up with him. David got fired from his job. So he doesn't have enough money to buy a of his own place. Jerry and Dave aren't talking to each other.

Jeremey called me saying he needs talk to me but only if David isn't around. It feels they'll dragging me into this and I honestly don't want to be a part of this. Help


Update: So I throw out David because he made out with my boyfriend's best friend's (also mine friend too) gf. He's living with my parents. Ever since got rid of him me and boyfriend stopped fighting. David and me aren't really talking to each other right    More than a year ago

Update: now. Was that too harsh? Cause I'm feeling pretty guilty now.    More than a year ago

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Kickrockslosers
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Kickrockslosers      When: More than a year ago
Talk to Jeremy, but tell him David is off limits unless David participates in illegal activites that can directly affect your life. I know it's hard to see it now, but you do still have a life.

I don't know what is wrong with David? Could it be that he has something so serious going on in his life that he is a f*%k up? If he wasn't always a total idiot, then there is something seriously wrong. Could it be drugs? Why did he get fired? He must have been out of his mind to cheat on his girlfriend. He must be insane because he cheated with your brother's wife. David has some serious issues.

Living arrangement-Does David have any friends left that are not involved in illegal activity? If he does, then he should try to stay with them for a couple of weeks. You must put him out if he is disrespecting your household. The rate that he's going, your man will be out within a month because he doesn't want to deal with your 'crazy family'. David must leave. If your parents are still alive, then tell them what's going on and maybe he can stay with them for a while. David must go. Try prayer for your family. What about a family meeting? An intervention meeting?
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Question Asker Trust my brothers always been idiots - More than a year ago
Answerer LOL, well then you definitely made the best decision. You can't keep cleaning up your older brother's mess. The best that he could hope for is a girlfriend that's an idiot also and will take him back every time he does something stupid. Be strong, you tried to do a good thing. Don't stop talking to him, just don't let him back into your place. Tough love is in order. - More than a year ago

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iamranga
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iamranga      When: More than a year ago
Your brother David asked a question on this site like you did. He said he got punched in the face and that he cheated on his girlfriend and slept with his bros wife.
Sounds exactly like ur David.
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Answerer Check it out: link - More than a year ago

good-looking-geek
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good-looking-geek      When: More than a year ago
This is a false story. There is broken English again and inconsistency in the names. It's the armhair guy or the jekyl hyde guy. This guy who makes up these stories is pretty funny though.

Hey dude, try to some up with a story completely fresh and learn better English while you are at it.
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AJtogo
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AJtogo      When: More than a year ago
JER-RY, JER-RY, JER-RY. Seriously, great story. Can't wait for the updates.
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Gotcha I agree. Is this the sister of Jekyll-Hyde guy? Sounds like a continuation of his story. - More than a year ago
Answerer Yeah, why didn't she take in the 9 year old brother? - More than a year ago
Answerer What a lousy update. BORRRRINNNGGG!!!! - More than a year ago
Question Asker Well could you do better? - More than a year ago
Answerer I knew you guys were full of shit. The stories are too sensational and with little feeling. Go back to writing class. - More than a year ago

Atomizer
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Atomizer      When: More than a year ago
My advice:

Tell your brothers that you don't want to hear one more word about their drama. And avoid your brothers, as well. You need to kick out the one who is living with you, and do it yesterday. When someone's hurting you, it doesn't matter if they're family. Protect yourself first.

They'll get mad at you. Let them get mad.

Your sanity is more important than having a relationship with people who are this messed up.
They'll drag you down if you let them.
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raz0rblastz
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raz0rblastz      When: More than a year ago
listen to him.jus listen that's all.dun offer help unless the situation is dire.right now he jus needs a listening ear.someone to rant to.right now ur the only one he can turn to.show him that family is the only one for him!besides jeremy.that guy is a jackass
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wally
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wally      When: More than a year ago
talk to david and tell him to get his ass to work and that he need to rent a place for him self,
try to solve things btw them in the same time don't go too far in it .
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Kickrockslosers
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Kickrockslosers      When: More than a year ago
Nope, not harsh at all. You are young to try to take care of his issue. Don't feel guilty, he will prey on your guilt. It was a good decision, stick by it.
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