"45,000,000 babies get aborted every year in the USA"
What is your opinion on it?
Update: Is it about choice and necessity or is it about life? Does a mother have the right to kill her unborn, to save her own life? Is a born and alive person more important than the unborn?
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Update: Is an unborn child a mother's possession, to be discarded like a used tissue? Or is there life?
11 months ago
Well of course that number is the number of abortions since 1973 or about 4,000 everyday. The only reason that's morally to abort a child is IF it will save the mother life. However, all medical studies and reports in medical journals have shown that it's an extremely rare case where killing the child will save the mother's life, but it's the excuse used to allow abortion on demand, and that's where the 45 million comes in. A person has to stop and consider what the difference is between killing a 9 month old child aleady born or a 9 months old child getting ready to be delivered? They're both human beings and they both end up dead. Or why is it they have to use deceptive words to describe killing a child, like terminating a pregnancy; women's rights; pro choice; the right to choose, abortion, etc. They do it to hide the truth. All life is equal, born or yet to be born, but where a choice has to be made to save one or the other, the mother is given priority because either way one would die. It's not about choice. It's about life.
I don't push my religion on anybody. Anyone can be pro-life and not religious. You don't have be a "bible thumper" to believe in the sanctity of life. Let's take a poll and see how many people that believe in abortion have ever had a child? I bet those numbers would be very small. Parenthood changes your outlook on a lot of things. - 11 months ago
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I don't either and never have. Look who brought it up here. So true with all you said. - 11 months ago
If a woman were to have an abortion you can't have it at 9 months the babies already going to be born. I am not sure on the time frame for an abortion but 9 months is too late. - 8 months ago
Yea you make a very good point but I still do not get it. I am I understand the whole 9 month year old kid there but I still do not get the whole why would mothers get it in their eight mind to kill an unborn child a chance. I mean every one deserves a chance.you know my mom said that me and her died for like 20 sseconds because I was being born. it really hurt my feelings. how would you feel if yourmother told you that you died once? I could not believe it at first but hey I don't choose family. - 6 months ago
Generally though bible thumpers bring up this argument. It is obvious to everyone else that abortion is a good thing. Crime rates have decreased rapidly since abortion came into affect. Why have a child who is going to be born raised in the slums with no future to turn to but drug trafficking? That makes no sense. And who's to say what is or is not "morally correct". I used to know a massive Jesus lover who preached his ass off about how bad abortion is, than got his girlfriend pregnant and had1 - 3 months ago
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You say 45,000,000 unborn children are aborted each year.Now imaging that none of those were ever aborted.The number would grow vastly.How many people are already on living on the US welfare system.How many more do you think would be had they not had abortions?As the number of people multiply because of the irresponsibility of people who fail to use contraceptives correctly.There are people that in this world should be "fixed" like we do animals to control their population, because they abuse the system by have child after child.Birth control and condoms aren't 100%.If you are out having sex you should know there is a chance you might come up pregnant.It's what you chose to do.So you can barley take care of yourself, living paycheck to paycheck, and come up pregnant.Yeah you can give it up for adoption. But in the mean time you know have doctors appoints you can afford and for the child to be born a hospital visit you really can't afford.Finally you give the child up.Everyone is worried about what you feel once you abort a fetus.What about when that child you gave up comes looking for you.To ask why and still wants nothing to do with you.When you see kids you'll still think of you child you gave away.There are hundreds of children living in a system because they were given up for adoption.Children living in a system that is just enough to get by.But lets add to it by saying abortion is wrong.It's a necessary evil.And a choice that women have.Men should be allowed a way out of being financially responsible for a child they didn't want and a woman choses to have and keep.Rather than being burdened by a child that they knew they can't provide adequate care for or aren't mature enough for that parental responsibility.Women sit on a high horse and feel just because they chose to have the child means they are more mature but if you can't take care of yourself you aren't.Everyone says your family should help.You chose to have sex and you chose to bring a child into the world when you can't provide for yourself.That is immature.So instead you burden others with your responsibilities, when you could have terminated it when you found out.Or you say you are better than those that had abortions by putting the child up for adoption when in reality there are hundreds of children who never find homes and grow up being bounced from one foster home to the next.Having a child suffer because you won't do either and can't afford or comprehend the responsibilities of a child is just as criminal.It is not the same as murdering a child.A child at 2,7,or 13 is the same burden that it was before you chose to have it.If you can't do it when they are younger, your having the same issues now that they are older.So we as humans can either continue to over populate a world where people are already starving in areas or curb the problem.Condemning someone to raise a child they don't won't nor can raise appropriately isn't the answer.
I believe its murder! I will never do it. Every human being deserves the chance of life, who are we to take that away from them. The choice will always be yours but the risks of what abortion will do to the womens body. If you have sex before marriage and end up getting pregnant, that is your own fault. You must live with the concequences. If you get raped, whether you caused it or not, either way you will suffer some sort of concequence. If you can't keep the baby. Adoption can work aswell. There are many people who want to adopt!
women are going to get abortions whether or not it's legal. either they get it done by someone who's qualified, or they have someone put a clothes hanger inside them. also, wtf would we do with those 45,000,000 babies each year? there's no way we can take care of all those kids and give them good lives, it's impossible.
abortions are bad, yes, but they shouldn't be illegal because desperate women are going to find a way to have it done no matter what. no women have abortions for kicks and giggles, it's a horrible experience.
Your logic makes no sense at all. Should we make theivery legal? Desperate people will still steal in order to survive. How about rape? Should we make that legal because desperate people will still try to have sex any way they can? Stop making up childish excuses and grow up. - 14 days ago
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It's completely different. shoplifting and thievery is illegal; when people do it, they get arrested. if abortion were illegal, people would be dying. and no, a 2 month old fetus is not a person, it's a wad of cells; it has no thoughts, it doesn't react, it doesn't feel pain. and this is my opinion, not yours. I happen to think that your rant abut thievery and rape is childish. you're comparing very different things that have different consequences. - 14 days ago
its a woman choice, not a debate. I understand it is killing a baby and I dissagree with that but its not like a woman walks in to get a abortion with a smile on her face.
I'm not saying it evil I'm saing it's not right whether it's in the first week of pregnancy its still ALIVE! inside of you and you kill it just because you can't see the baby you made right then doesn't mean the baby's not real! that's murder but they make excuse that the baby's not fully developed! They can still feel it.
How is it that people who kill their wives while their pregnant get 2nd degree murder but when women get abortions they totally dismiss the death!? It makes no sense and I hate it...just think if that was you inside your mother would you want them to give up on you and feel the pain of getting attacked by poison? I . Dont. Think. So.
I Am Against it right now ... but I guess you could say I'm caught in between casue right now I would say I wouldn't get an abortion cause yes it is killing a baby but ... I'm not in a position to make that discison currentally if my situation ever did change then maby my feelings toward it might change
This is something people need to understand. I'm Catholic, but I don't agree with a lot of their teachings, and one of them is abortion. Obviously it isn't an easy choice for most people, and they know it isn't the right choice, but sometimes it is the necessary choice. So people say that yea , it's your fault for having sex, you should face the concequences, but seriously, how do people expect others not to engage in sex if that's all that is around us. We see it on tv, magazines, everywhere, and its something people are going to do no matter what. It's a womans right to get one if she wants to. Personally, I don't know if I would be able to do it, but if getting one had more positives than negatives, I would consider it.
But really, I am all for it. Some women may make bad choices and use it for birth control, but then again we aren't trying to outlaw aspirin because people make bad choices and kill themselves with it.
I don't believe that abortion shld be used as a form of birth control however, if there are circumstances that life throws in one's direction then aborton may be the only recourse.
I do not think its my place to tell some1 what they can and can't do with their own bodies. Even though there is a living organism inside a womans body and she chooses to abort it, that's her call and no1 elses, not even the father's - - UNLESS, he is willing to take sole custody forevermore of the child once its born.
Adoption is not always a means to an end, one can never know whether that child will ever be adopted and if they are what home they go to. To me, adoption wld be worse that abortion.
I, not only think that abortion is appropriate if the mothers health is at stake but also if there are sever health issues with the child. My reasoning is logical, so please hear me out as I have thought very long abt this.
If I have a child that is born with sever damage and is unable to successfully care for themselves - I wld have no problem loving them and taking care of them. Yet, what happens to them when I pass? If I have no relatives willng or able to care for them, then they will go to a state run facility most likely and I find that to be cruel. Most of these institutions are horrible places to live with less than mediocre care that is provided. I wld rather take my childs life, prior to my passing, than have them live in a place of that nature. If I do that, than why even subject the child to a life less than what they cld have had in the first place?!
This is a very touchly subject and I respect all views as I hope all will respect my own.
I think it depends on the situation... But to me, life is important. If you don't want to get pregnant, take all the precautions possible; of course there is the situation where that's just not possible. I believe having the choice is good. However as the saying goes, with great power comes great responsibility, so I think before a mother (or soon-to-be mother) makes her final decision about abortion, she should talk to a psychologist about other possibilities, and the consequences of any possible courses of action.
i was 16 years old when I got pregnant. I was scared and was gonna abort. I didn't want my mom to find out. she did anyways and we had a big dissucion and I decided that was the worst idea I've ever had.
1)if you don't wanna get pregnant use protection. a broken condom isn't an excuse! hell don't have sex at all. I was uncarful and so it was MY fault not the babies. and I know now to be careful, I double protect myself. I also think that people are being less careful because they know that there's abortion avaible
2)have you ever wondered if within all those unborn babies there was one that was gonna grow up to cure aids or rid the world of hunger?
3)the first few hours of a babies life it already has a heart beat. its ALIVE. killing a living person is murder.
4) there ARE a lot of alturatives, there's plenty of people in this world who want and cannot have children of their own. if you feel you can't take care of a child give it to someone who can.
i look at my son and feel guilty that I EVER thought about that. the day I went for my first ultrasound I knew I was gonna love this baby forever. I did decided to keep it kowing that it would be hard and that I was young but I didn't wanna think about not having him. I made a mistake that I wouldn't take back for the world. My son smiles whe I come home from school everyday, its a wonderful gift only a child can give. those poor babies don't ever get a chance to smile. laugh or be loved
i think there is life. if she did not a child then either that birth control or make him ware a condum. easy as that. but if she was rapped then I understand. I would not want a random child either. but I really don't see the point in getting rid of a life that is not here yet. I mean (yea I no the 3 letter word) GOD put the kid there for a reason...right?
Lol to "random child". I agree with you. - 6 months ago
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I think abortion is psychologically damaging to a child. To me it's about life as a consequence of those choices out of necesssity. I do not think anyone has the human right to kill someone else, but it so happens that a baby is seen as a piece of property rather than a potential individual. And to the last question: I can't say
Some people want babies. Other people do not want babies. If you want babies and cannot conceive then an unborn baby is just as important as a born one. On the other hand, if you don't want a baby then an unborn baby is important in that she does not have to take responsibility for the new life, the mother views the child conceived as less important. There are some women who have babies for a specfic purpose like inheritance as they did in the age of kings and queens, to live out their own missed dreams, fame, fortune, etc.
i actually hold a very strong opinion about abortions because my sister has done it five times. I think its so stupid. if a person doesn't want a child then get on something that prevents pregnancy there's so many different ways to do it. its sad. I could of had 4 nephews and twin nieces. Abortion is coming to the point to people will have an oabrtion until they get pregnant with the sex of the child that they want.
I am against it, have ya seen the pictures its sad. A mother who does this have to live the rest of their lives without knowing if that could have been the best thing that happened to them.
Some people say they wouldn't do it, and then it happens to them and they think differently. I believe that if the mother wants to get an abortion, then they should have a right to. It's their body. If they do not want a child and are not ready, then they have the right to make the choice for themselves. Now, this is mostly directed to younger expected mothers. If you are older, moved out from your parents house, etc. Then I think you should have the child since you could just give it up for adoption. Or if the mother is unable to have the baby due to health issues. It all depends on the situation.
i could never get an abortion. i believe that everyone has the right to have a chance at life. i don't know, maybe I have an invested interest because I myself was born with spina bifida and my older sister was born with down syndrome and I personally think...my mum was given the option of aborting both of us and I'm not perfect so what right do I have to end anothers' life just because they aren't perfect either...coz let's face it...we're all screwed up in some way. im also catholic so technically I'm not supposed to believe in abortion but my faith has absolutely nothing to do with my decision. PRO LIFE!
It's a personal choice and depends on that persons beliefs. Update one: yes the mother has the right to abort to save her own life or choose to die by saving her childs life. Who else should make that decision, someone who doesn't know her; or government; or state? Some women will want to live and some women will want to take the chance and save the baby. Ultimately we will be held accountable for our decision by God...for those who are believers. I think they are both equally important
Update two: Well, throughout history children have been identified by their mothers names, not their fathers, which is why creditors ask for your mother's maiden name LOL. So, yes children belong to their mothers, the tissue or fetus (since you sound like a pro-lifer) grows inside of the mother so I would say that it's hers! KRL
i personally would never do it, but it boils down to the fact that it's the woman's choice (and her significant other if she has one)
saving the woman's life is a reason too.
i have a friend who was forced to keep the baby that she concieved after being raped.it's really messed her up, and even though she absolutely ADORES her little girl, her daughter still serves as a daily reminder of "the worst day of her life".
i honestly do not think that the government or other people have the right to dictate what a woman does to her body. she has to live with the consequences of that decision yes, but it's a matter of choice.
I hope I am never in a situation where I have to consider abortion. I can see both sides of the argument and I would never be able to choose.
Against) If my mother had an abortion I would not be here today. It is stealing a life that the child will never get a chance to live
For) What is the difference between getting an abortion and never concieving a child. If a condom was used the day I was concieved I still would not be here...
I believe that its not a choice. the baby is only there because it can't grow up with out any help by itself. Its mean and selfish and it makes me so sad to think that there are so many innocent babys that get killed because someone doesn't want them, most likely, because of some mistake they made. how come someone that kills a pregnant lady and gets two counts of murder and they can do that! it makes no sence at all.
First, your statistic? Wrong. That would mean that almost 50% of women of childbearing age are aborting at least 3 children a year. Not correct.
As for abortion, well, I was going to put my well thought out comment on here, but then I read through the comments, and this is obviously a pro-life movement in the works. And not one that can take other people's opinions. I love that those of us who are pro-choice, even those who wouldn't ever abort a child, can respect your opinion, but those who are against something on religious and moral grounds seem to automatically throw everyone else to the wolves.
I believe in the same God that you do, and you know what? I'm pretty sure that somehwere in that big old book it says you shouldn't discriminate, you shouldn't shun, and you shouldn't treat your fellow man the way you seem to be doing on this post. So why is it ok for you to be against abortion and bash those of us who are pro-choice for sinning, yet your behavior, also a sin, is ok? I just don't understand it. Christians should lead by example and kindness, not by persecution.
You put me in the right place. I am just very distressed and angry about what is happening in the world, but that shouldn't be a reason to bash them. - 10 months ago
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I understand that. But you have to know a person before you can understand why they may do something. Or at least, accept that there are other views. It just kills me to see everyone attack something when they feel it isn't right for them. And I understand what you mean. I do see your point; too many tend to use it as birth control, when there are other methods. - 10 months ago
The god mentioned in the Bible is NOT pro-life: http://www.evilbible.com/god%27s%20not%20pro-life.htm http://dwindlinginunbelief.blogspot.com/2007/01/how-many-has-god-killed-complete-list.html - 7 months ago
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That site is totally taking the bible out of context. The prophets are not saying that God is killing people. The prophets are complaining that people are killing people. How daft can people get! - 7 months ago
i think its horrible.. there will never be another baby like that one in the world and nothing can replace it so its special and shouldnt be murdered. but just put up for adoption. its not the childs fault. its the mothers. and obviously she didn't make the right choice by having sex and letting a child be conceived but she should be able to make the right choice and to me that's having the child.
i belive abortion should be pro choice. many people make mistalkes even if the condom breaks they used one but there's a big chance that she could still get pregant. I don't think that one should be judge on what she did or didn't do. I think that everybody that have an abortion have a REALLY good reason for it they are not just mean people that don't care. so the people that's really against it that's fine just don't judge the people who think its pro choice.
Im not so sure about the good reason part. I worked with a girl that literally got pregnant over and over again and used abortion as a form of birth control. However, she was also a mother and picked and choose which guy she was willing to stay pregnant by. Half the time she would come to work high, even when she was pregnant, and when she finally decided to have her set of twins one of them died. Everyone that didn't know her, like I did, felt so sorry for her but she was a scum!!!! - 9 months ago
This is a tough topic. Everyone has their opinion, but unless you've actually been tested, how do you know what you would do? I consider myself pro-life, but if something horrible happened to me, would I be able to resist the possibility of it being as if it never happened. I would like to think so-but you can never know yourself until you've been tested.
I think a bad thing about abortion is that it's almost like there's no consequesnces. I know a girl who's had 3 abortions.
Having a baby could be an inconvinience at the time, but you never know what destiny that baby could have fullfilled. You assume that baby is going to suffer-but sometimes great things come from/in spite of adversities. I am not particularly religious, but I have studied the bible at times: it says: before I formed you in the womb, I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you, I have appointed you a prophet to the nations" Jeremiah 1:5
As for population growth and all that let me tell you this true story. China is the most populated contry in the world. They have rules to control the population-such as 1 child limit. If a couple gets pregnant they have to terminate. Anyway: about a year or two ago a natural disaster struck china-an earthquake struck a school-the school collapsed-nearly all the children died. They now have nobody to look after them when their old(that's how it is in china) the government said they could have another-but many of them are now too old. Maybe it would have been better if those pregnancies weren't aborted? I don't know when I heard this story it fascinated me.
Anyways there's so much that could be said about this topic but I'll stop right there cause I'm getting tired lol
You said enough to made an outstanding point! But stay enduring on your pro life beliefs because a child is a child the moment it is conceived, and a person with a pro choice belief can never change that. To humans, pregnancy often seems like it was an accident.. it wasn't planned. But to God, nothing is ever an accident. Children are given to couples for very specific reasons and each has a mission long before conception. - 10 months ago
China does have an aging population, which they are trying to prevent happening in further generations. The one-child policy is actually a good plan for a country that is rapidly outgrowing the space it had for people.
But a good comment. You see both sides, and I like that. - 10 months ago
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China is the most populated country on earth. but I don't believe a country should control its people and tell them how many children they can have and force them to get abortions. That's taking freedom. Yes, the policy lowers the population, but it also does damage-China has the WORST sex imbalance than any country with men greatly outnumbering women(since girls are commonly aborted). There are Chinese men who cannot find a wife-child marriages and women trafficking is prevelent. Like I said - 10 months ago
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This topic fascinates me. and thanks-I always try to analyze both sides - 10 months ago
Wow... that was a wonderful verse... I never thought of it like that. - 10 months ago
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I think the biggest problem is its like a get out of pregnancy card, If you weren't protected and got pregnant you shouldn't be able to get rid of it because you can. I also feel like there should be some cases where it is okay, ex. say some 13yr old girl is walking home an a guy rapes her and she gets pregnant that is unfair and then I could see that it is okay. But there needs to be guidlines to this not just a get out of pregnancy so my parents won't know what I did. It all comes down to being safe and also plaaning ahead for a child to come into the world.
I believe it's a woman choice. It's her body, if she's not ready for a baby at, say 17 years old, then she has the right to choose whether or not to abort, or deliver. And for that matter, what if the child is a product of rape? She has a right to choose. I don't believe that religion has a right to tell a women what she can and can not do in her own body.
it is her right. I do not like it, but I cannot say that it should be taken away. for that reason, I am neutral. for the people who act like it is easy for a rape victim to carry a daily reminder of that horror and just give it up for adoption, they do not know the pain and horror of actually doing it because they have not been in that situation. don't judge others on something that you have not been through and couldn't even imagine.
*no, I am not a rape victim, but to some extent I can see their pain and suffering, based on that I feel very strongly about the right to choice.
Less than 1 percent of abortions are from rape victims - 11 months ago
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Thats hard to believe. you seem to be screwing up your numbers a bit I would like to add that I disagree with the people who wish to allow women to have multiple abortions it is not birth control but perhaps saving both the mother and fetus from growing into a bad life I do not like late abortions either a fetus an unthinking feeling breathing fetus w/o a beating hearts is no more than a cluster of cells oh and another thing could everyone try to be open minded. people have their own opinions - 11 months ago
The reason your statistic for abortions due to rape is so low, is because most women who get raped are ashamed of it, and never report it to the police. So chances are, a lot more of the abortions per year are due to rape. I totally agree with gonaners16 in her position on carrying the constant reminder of how a woman could get pregnant through rape. It's hard enough to deal with that pain and guilt without having a growing child to remind you ever day. I'm not a rape victim but I sympathize - 11 months ago
I agree with evolution, I know someone that was raped and they never contacted the police. It was her bfds friend that raped her. If she wouldve ended up pregnant, what would she have done? Gone to the abortion clinic and cry rape? No, not when she didn't have the creeps a## thrown in jail!!! - 9 months ago
DONT SAY THAT IT IS A CHOICE. having baby is a gift from God. that is why NOBODY HAS THE RIGHT TO DO ABORTION. because if we say that it will be our choice, so you're getting that unborn a freedom to be alive or not. people must be responsible before they commit in sex.
lets always not think that it is just a blood that you're killing. human. an angel and innocent creature.
do not also give the whole responsibility to the women because that little creature was not created only by women. they are not virgin mary that filled holy spirit and get pregnant. Guys should be responsible enough also and not just give the burden to women. we also needs your support regarding this issue.
Sorry that doesn't make any sense, read over your response again and put it into gramatically correct english, only then will you be worthy of a reaponse from me - 11 months ago
I do not believe in organised religion, and I DO believe that it's a woman's choice. If she's not ready to be a mother, then she's not ready. No amount of religion or bible reading is going to change the fact that it's her body, no one elses. I know enough women who've had babies to know that they knew they needed to grow up before they started. And I also know enough women who've had babies early, and wish they had waited, or had decided on abortion (in time or too late). It's a choice. - 11 months ago
Mollyb.... You have a God whether you beleive in one or not. That's not your choice nor anyone elses. That makes you and all those others complete fools. It's been proven beyound a doubt that the bible is the most accurate history book ever written. A group of the best scientiest in the world recently concluded that the odds against our creation and universe coming about accidently was 10 to the 40,000th power to 1. Totally impossible! The order of creation is absolutely perfect. - 10 months ago
Where do you get this shit from? don't patronise me I don't belive in your "god" therefore I don't have one so piss off with your religious bullshit, it has no place in my lefe, you arogant prick!!! - 10 months ago
Im with molly don't force anything on me! its a bunch of shit that people believe because they can't accept that life might just be shitty I am NOT waiting for 'god' to change my life and make it better! I will do it myself its pathetic! you are just a bunch of lazy ass people! if you want something, GO GET IT accept that life is shitty and move on. its stupid to think that there is some magical place in the sky where everything is perfect. it is just as stupid as saying that harry potter is real! - 9 months ago
people shouldn't f*** irresponsibly, know the consequences. it's like killing a person, almost, altho others would argo not so, either way, it's irresponsible and people should get their f***ing act together and know what happens when you have sex without birthcontrol, seriously
Yeah...we're really irresponsible with that whole getting raped thing...Totally our fault...B*tch. - 11 months ago
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You're crazy! I wasn't even refering to rape, of course that's wrong. You shouldn't go around calling people bitches for being a bitch yourself, read and calm down sheesh! - 11 months ago
I agree with AlexandreGothGirl. Rape resulting in pregnancy isn't irrepsonsibly on the woman's part. I do not agree with the original answer, in it's entirety anyway. I agree that people should be responsible and careful when they have sex. But you've also blamed it entirely on the woman. They guys have just as much responsibility in creating a fetus as the woman does. Just because he doesn't put a condom on, doesn't make it her fault. For some, that's their choice of birth control. - 11 months ago
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What f***ing idiots are you? I just said it isn't right. Fuck you for assuming I said that rape is good. You two are f***ing retarded because you can't read english. - 11 months ago
If he doesn't put a condom on its not your fault? Hello you obviousl agreed to have unprotected sex it is your fault its your body not the guys - 10 months ago
I have read other entries where AlexandraGothGirl called other answers B******. This is uncalled for. No need for name calling everyone is entited to their opinion - 10 months ago
Lol I think it's funny how worked up people get over this topic. None of use are mature enough to accept each other's opinions and move on. Get a grip, all of you. - 6 months ago
Personally I think abortion is wrong and should not be done unless its for an incredibly good reason, because in truth you are killing a "potential" human being. The mother to be is in a way killing her baby because it suits her.
HOWEVER don't get me wrong, I can understand that there are a lot of events that we can not plan for. Women also have to take a lot of things into consideration like her state of mind and being as well as how financially independent she is. There are a lot of other reasons why a woman would consider getting an abortion and although I think its wrong I believe a woman should have the right to choose for herself what she wishes to do. If she's mentally strong enough to understand what she is doing and she decides to get an abortion then I understand.
I don't think I would be able to get an abortion, but to be honest I can't see into the future. In the end I have to say, I am Pro Choice.
Personally, I'm 100% Pro-Life. I have heard of a few women who had to have abortions because of serious medical problems.VERY few. In that case, I'm still thinking about how I feel on that subject. Other than that, I'm totally against it. Even in cases of rape, which it is extremely rare that a woman will get pregnant from being raped. But I do know a girl who was raped and ended up pregnant, and she still has that child to this day. Her exact words "How can I take away the life of a child when that child's life occurred from it's father's wrongs, but the child had nothing to do with it?". Some women say they couldn't bare to keep the baby after a rape, because they wouldn't be able to even look at the child. Those are women who've never had to endure it. This woman looks at her baby girl every day and loves her so much and wouldn't trade her for the world. In fact, she says her daughter is the only good outcome of her rape. No unborn child is less important than an alive one. In fact, how can people say that even a fetus is not alive? Is it not growing and multiplying daily? How can that be considered NOT alive?
i hate even the thought of abortion its selfish mean and pure stupid its muder and any one who thinks its ok need some serious help because there is no diffrence in being born or unborn because they both have a heatbeat and are gods creation but that's just my opinion
I disagree if you got rape what would you do? Would you have an abortion then? Or let the child be unlove because all you think about is that child is from someone who raped you - 11 months ago
Personally, I don't think religion has any place in the decision of whether or not a woman has an abortion. It's her body, plain and simple. Anyone who says that their body belongs to god or their church, is seriously in need of a reality check. You live in your skin, bottom line. And ShatteredRazor has a point. If you got raped and pregnant, what would you do? Carry the unwanted child to term or abort? - 11 months ago
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I was with a man for four years, we used protection EVERY time. One day I broke my back. I could still walk but it was very painful and everyday tasks were impossible. I found out I was pregnant. The doctors told me I needed to terminate the pregnency or it would cause my back to snap completely and put me in a coma or kiill me. Society looks down so much on abortion and I couldn't bring myself to do it. I carried the baby. You wouldn't believe the pain it caused me. I lay in bed for months in terrible pain, umable to do anything. I went to a doctors appointment and they told me there was a good chance I wasn't going to make it because my spine was starting to pinch my spinal cord. I still couldn't do it. That night I had a miscarriage. The baby didn't make it anyways. I let myself get attached to the baby, I went through a lot of pain for this baby, and I waited until the BABY had the ability to FEEL. And it suffered. And it was my fault. I should have done what the doctors said in the first place and saved me AND THE BABY a lot of pain. I shouldn't have cared what society thought. Quit pushing your damn beliefs on everybody else. Let us think for OURSLEVES! Yeah you have your own opinions and that is just fabulous but I do too ok. And mine count just as much as yours do. Pro Choice people. It is an option every woman needs. And not just for medical reasons but also life situations. If I had that baby, if it didn't kill me, you think I could have raised it? Hell no. If it got sick there wasn't much I could afford to do. That baby could have been born into a terrible situation and suffered. It would have been better for me and the baby if I had terminated when it was still a FETUS! Not a baby people, a fetus. Before it could feel, before it could think. Before it could hear my voice. Pro Choice.
Oh it's horrible.im sorry you went through this.I agree,there are different situations,we can't say 1 thing and decide what is right and what is wrong. - 11 months ago
Wonderful comment! I'm so sorry you went through all of this. I have had an abortion for a life situation and I don't regret it. Thanks for sticking it to all these ill informed people I hope it gives them something to think about ! - 11 months ago
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We as people base our ideas too much on "what if's" or pre-determined statistics. I believe it was the right choice you took, even though maybe for the wrong reasons, but wasn't it worth the pain in the end? To choose what is right is rarely the most convienient or painless choice, but mostly cost the most pain but for the right reasons. If we keep on taking the most convienient and stress free choices in life we will find ourselves caught up in the middle of disaster without realising it. - 11 months ago
I don't think your really hearing what this woman is saying. it was not worth it in the end for her are you that stupid that you cannot draw that conclusion, get your head out of your ass!!! - 11 months ago
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Thank you mollyb!!! - 11 months ago
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The fact remains that you still killed your own child for your own convinience, born or unborn, the only difference is that an abdomen is in the way. - 11 months ago
'oops, my bad'!? WTF!? read, dumb ass! and I'm sorry that you had to go through that. I am very pro-choice, but I do not agree with using abortion as a form of birth control, as some do. people need to learn to be responsible, but accidents/problems/life situations occur and it can be better for everyone if the woman has an abortion. great comment. - 9 months ago
You girls really need to chill out. I'm assuming all of you had abortions (besides Answerer), and you're getting over-emotional over the fact that some people here are against it. Calling people "f***wits" isn't gonna get you anywhere or convince them you're right.
In my opinion, women should only get abortions if they're suffering from a life situation like Answerer, where aborting the fetus will prevent the woman and baby from enduring so much pain. I'm against anything besides that. - 6 months ago
Abortion should be based on an individuals situation. However, in most cases it should not be allowed.
-If the mother would die due to childbearth-abortion is understandable.
-If there is rape involved--it is NOT THE CHILD's FAULT, so abortion should not be considered-Unless the mother is under so much emotional/mental/physical distress that it is more harm to herself longterm to keep the baby
-If it is a young teen pregnant or someone without money or resources to care for the child--there are closed adoptions available. so the child could have a better life and the mother could carry on with hers.
-Other then that--all I have to say is get some guts women! If you have sex, you should be prepared for the consequences. It is a disgusting world where animals have more rights than our own unborn children!
NINE months or Less to have a baby--WHAT is nine months out of your life? Are women that selfish that they wouldn't give the gift of life.which they themselves are experiencing?
And if you still believe abortion is ok, go kill the next child you see, whether that be a current child, sibling, neice or nephew --because killing that living child is the same as killing that child in your womb. There is no difference except where they are in the stage of their LIFE.
I believe that abortion as a form of birth control is nothing but legalized murder. There are plenty of forms of /free/ birth control methods out there that can prevent it. There are also lots of loving homes with childless couples that would love to have that baby.
Now, on the opposite side of the spectrum, I believe that if there is some sort of health danger that should be taken into consideration. I think that health reasons should include physical as well as mental. For instance if someone is a victim of rape or incest and a pregnancy occurs that can be mentally devastating to the mother and therefore cause severe mental health issues.
I strongly believe it is a mothers right! You may not understand what the woman is going threw emotionally. Especially if she is still in school and trying to get her life straight this could mean even a 21 year old or such. It is not wrong to have an abortion however when you choice to use abortion as a typical birth control something is wrong with that woman. But all woman go threw various reasons as to why they would get an abortion in the first place there for you may never know what her reason was to get an abortion , such as financial situations, and even the circumstance in her house hold sometimes its not the right time and even with brith control and protection things do happen, and if I was personally raped I wouldn't want to bring that child into this nasty world.
I actually am 6 months pregnant and I have also had an abortion two years ago so trust me I am coming into this debate very well prepared - 9 months ago
No If you ever took the time to READ peoples comments properly, which you never appear to given the ludicracy of your comments. Two years ago I was not in a position to give my child a good life so I terminated a very young pregnancy. I am now in a loving relationship and am capable to give my child the life she deserves.. I really think if you are so committed to god and his preachings then you would have the ability to have an open mind and accept the decisions of others as there own - 6 months ago
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Should I have an open mind about killing unborn children? We kill in the name of openmindedness. That is ludicracy. And by the way god doesn't preach, people do. - 6 months ago
I think abortion is just wrong if you don't use protection or anything then you know ur likely to have a kid and if you don't want a kid then use the protection or just don't have sex at all until your married I strongly feel that when a mother is killing her own child its murder but me personally I don't think I could ever give up a baby that I created no mater how much I didn't mean to have the kid or how much I really don't want it I think it was the mothers fault for having sex and not worrying about it when it is a big deal.
I agree with you to some point, but I'll take it further.
Why don't people just stop having sex? Then they will be able to think straight for a time in their life! And not be controlled by the violent addiction. - 11 months ago
Yes we are mammals, but we don't only have instinct like animals but we have choice and can choose to be more than animals, and that has the potential for the greater evil or the greater good. By the way, animals never abort their offspring but look after them. - 10 months ago
Not true many mothers in the animal kingdom kill the weaker of their offspring - 9 months ago
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You are just avoiding... You don't know what you are talking about. This is sick. I'm sorry. Abortion is murder and if I can not convince you of it then hopefully someday you will understand the crimes you have commited. The government doesn't make laws. Law has always been there and the world will suffer for it's crimes, not by anyone persons revenge but by the natural laws that holds us. - 8 months ago
No I'm not "avoiding" I actually answered your question directly go back have a look what you said then at what I said. are you a bit soft? I think instead of putting your energy into a debate for which you have absolutely no knowledge of, maybe you should go back to school and learn a bit more. Good luck ! maybe "God" should have taught you how to read if he's such a great "father" - 8 months ago
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What do you mean by soft? I'd rather be soft than be a hard hearted nazi killing off the unwanted or weak genetical people or animals. Nazi's are far from being natural. - 7 months ago
WTF??? does that have to do with anything how can you compare one of the worst attempted genocides of our history to abortion... you really are soft aren't you.. oh and BTW that means STUPID,SLOW,DUMB...ETC - 6 months ago
Abortion is the worst attempt to genocide, or rather infanticide, the world has ever seen. Or rather "not seen" because it is legalized and done behind "curtains". I'm still not getting what you mean by soft? - 6 months ago
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Abortion is the worst attempt to genocide the word has ever seen. What the Nazi's did is just a pin prick to what will follow if we continue this way. Why abortion is so acceptable is because it is done in the name of human rights and freedom of opinion. Law should never be based upon these, but rather human rights and freedom of opinion should be based upon law. - 5 months ago
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It is a woman's body and her right. I do not condone late term abortions after 3 months of pregnancy though. If the pregnancy is less than 3 months, they should not ban that right from women because what if she gets raped or her health is in jeopardy? What then? And with the rate of mothers killing their children, would you rather have a woman kill her child because she didn't want them or couldn't raise them, or would you rather her terminate the pregnancy?
I think women who abort should be hanged, just as they did in the old days, when there used to be some justice and meaning to life... A tooth for a tooth and an eye for an eye. Children are no less important and fully human beings as the mother. - 11 months ago
You really should just crawl back into the pathetic little hole from which you emergered, your veiws are completely incompatable with todays society, maybe you were born in the wrong era or on the wrong planet - 11 months ago
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"Todays society" is just in your head. The manner of society is based upon our philosophies about reality in that moment. The only difference with the past and today is peoples mindsets. We can change it to better or worse. - 11 months ago
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I don't have the power to cleanse the world of it's sins. Even if I wished to I would never be able to, because I am a sinner too (as you can see I make allot of mistakes). There is only one who can cleanse the world of sin and he has already done it. As humanity we should just come to realize this. - 10 months ago
Dont forget Molly had a life threatening situation and had an abortion, Id like to hear what that was...hmmm but now she's 6 months prego..hugh!!!!Think of the child you aborted when you have this one, the color of its hair, eyes, ect. It is all determined when the sperm meets the egg. Think about the brother or sister your child couldve had and your reason was???? - 9 months ago
Asker, don't try to force your shit beliefs on us! admit that life might be shitty! if you want it to be better, DO IT YOURSELF! I'm sure as hell not waiting for some 'god' to make life perfect in some magical place in the sky! its as stupid as saying that harry potter is real. things do NOT 'poof' into existence. where is the PROOF!? - 9 months ago
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Life doesn't have to be 'shitty'. But what I am saying is if we keep on killing our children the world will be even more 'shitty' than ever before. It has already gone to shit and we have been blind to it for a long time. I am saying DO IT YOURSELF by stopping abortion and sin, but man can not do it on his own because when we try to do things on our own fallen and weak understanding, things never change but instead become the more 'shitty'. It has been proven for thousands of years. - 8 months ago
What about in the case of incest or rape? And I agree with you. - 11 months ago
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There used to be a time when mothers will die for bringing a life, or mothers will die to save their children. Today the honor of mothers are lost and they will eat their own children just because they feel hungry (as a manner of speaking). - 11 months ago
I think it is wrong to throw away the life a woman that people have put so much love and effort into... Someone who would be missed.... Only to let her die, as if the only thing she brings to the world is a biological child. - 11 months ago
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Is the mother is more important that the child? - 11 months ago
Why is a women more important that a 'fetus'? Then you will say that I am stupid to ask such a blatantly stupid question and answer me because she is grown up and can do more things and look after people etc. Then I will respond and say "Is human worth based upon what you can do?" Then you will respond positively, and that would make you a nazi. I give up. - 8 months ago
I really don't think you should use the word "nazi" in a metophorical way you obviously have no respect for the horrors that people had to endure under this reigime. You do not know who on this site may be a direct descendant of one of those people. Choose your words more carefullly or don't they teach you that at Bible school? - 8 months ago
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The word "nazi" for me is the same as the word "abortion". Because both are used in the context of killing off the weaker genetical type. I can see that in the future the so-called land of freedom, liberty and equality will become the next regime of totalitarianistic humanistic national socialism. About every 4th generation there comes a revolution of apocoliptic proportions. Hopefully we can keep this from happening, but that goes against history. Perhaps this time around it would go better. - 7 months ago
Thank goodness I don't live in your country people like you scare me you should really be careful using words associated with the holocaust in a debate which has nothing to do with that... its taking the p*ss anad its pretty insulting to the people who went through it... oh and who said that unborn foetus' are weaker genetically? think about it it really makes no sense... and I also don't think that hitlers reasoning behind his tyranny was to do with genetic weakness either - 6 months ago
It's unfortunate and terribly sad that women become pregnant from rape (or get raped at all, for that matter). BUT, the baby was not chosen to be created, and taking a life away from someone that has no voice or choice is wrong.
Giving up for adoption gives the baby a chance to have a warm and loving home, and give adults who can never have kids a chance to have one.
What do you think it would do to a woman psychologically if she had to carry her rapists child? - 11 months ago
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No more than what it would do if she was raped in the first place. Unfortunately many rape victims see the rape as being their own fault... there's nothing we can do about that notion except try to ensure that their rape wasn't their own fault. If a woman thinks logically, she would realize that the innocent baby should not be punished for a bad mans actions. - 11 months ago
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To kill the unborn of your rapist, I see as a manner of revenge. And revenge is not an option. Rather show that you are better than the rapist, or murderer and move in the opposite spirit and bring up his child. - 11 months ago
You say the fetus had no voice or choice, you think the raped woman had a voice or choice? No she didn't, it was forced upon her. And now that's all said and done she needs her voice and choice to decide what the next steps are. I don't think it's right or wrong, It's personal situations. - 11 months ago
What I think is interesting is that most women don't realize that if it wasn't for abortion being illegal it would still be legal for men to beat their wives. And rape would still be a property crime(Against the woman's father or husband) not assault against the woman. - 11 months ago
It ain't illegal in my country love, and beating your wife and raping a person certainly is, so I guess that disproves your farcical comment - 10 months ago
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The govenment doesn't make laws. If the govenment does, then they are making it up just to control us. That is a fact. - 8 months ago
You see where we live in this place called the REAL world the government does make laws. Who makes the laws in your little fantasy world? - 8 months ago
I think that people should just give the child up for adoption. At least give it a chance to live. This is a hard topic and everyone will always have their own opinions. I guess it depends on the situation like if a mother could lose her life. No life is more important than the other. It is not anyone's decision but the mother etc. But because of my morals and faith I just don't like abortion. I think it is wrong and also very sad. :[
i prefer adoption if I got pregnant I would definitely put it up for adoption i do think its the mothers decision because you don't know what the situation is she could have very unsupportive parents and no other option
but I do think the aborted fetuses should be used for research because at least then there's something good from it
-You should selective in who you have sex with, even if you've had sex before. -You should wait until you're mature enough to take on the responsibility of having sex. -Make sure women that you are on a type of birth control that you can be responsible for. -Do your research, so you know what your options are. -Men, always wear a condom: it is Your responsibility no matter what the woman says.
Be responsible, and learn as much as you can before you have to "choose".
I agree with you, but I'll go as far to say: forget about condoms or birth control, (these things are just unnatural, no matter who says different). Just don't have sex if you are afraid of having a baby. Otherwise get married. - 11 months ago
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It's fine if you believe in sex for procreation, but that that route is not for everybody. What is natural, good, or innocent, in the eyes of one person is completely different for the next person. There are natural condoms, and it is possible to get herbal birth control, or non-hormonal copper, and the calendar method. The best thing you can do is know what your options are, and make your own personal decisions. I feel it is natural to fear of having the responsibility of having a child. - 11 months ago
What exactly do you base this on. Personal experience? - 11 months ago
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Well kinda.. my ex roomate had a lot of abortions and her life has been hell ever since, I think its karma getting her back. I think of abortion as murder - 11 months ago
Sorry but I don't really consider your ex roomates experience to be personal experience. Murder is the killing of a human life. A fetus is not a human life it is the potential for one! - 11 months ago
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Well... its "becoming" a human so its really the same thing in my opinion, nope I don't have any personal experience because I wouldn't have an abortion :/ - 11 months ago
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Mollyb, don't believe everything you get tought in school. If you will continue to follow that train of though, gladiator rings and mass murder will be legalized. "Fetuses" is a twisted and derogatory scientific word for unborn children. - 11 months ago
No one would listen to you your from a different time jump in a time machine and then start your "campaign" - 11 months ago
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Mollyb, there is nothing new under the sun. Times have not changed, people just think it has, and thus they think they can change reality for their own agendas. - 10 months ago
If you pregnant that is your own fault,so you shouldn't take it out on the baby. I mean in this day and age there is no reason anyone to have an unwanted pregnancy there are way too many birth control methods these days its not like when I was a teen that we pretty much only had condoms, pills and really bad information on how to use both. Now a days pretty much all schools, hospitals and churches offer sex-ed and teen pregnancy prevention programs how can there still be this many teens getting pregnant. If you are too young to be a mom then you are too young to have sex.
I believe if you are not ready to be a mother you should give your baby up for adoption.
REASON: Two of my aunts who I love dearly where never able to have children, one of my aunts had no problems getting pregnant her husband is who can't. well 13 years ago she adopted my cousin and this girl has an amazing life. She is surrounded by all the family who love her and protect her to death. Me and my sister take her everywhere and she sleeps over every other weekend. My other aunt is in the process of adopting. By giving a baby up for adoption you are giving someone else the joy of being a parent. My because knows that she is adopted and she doesn't care much I mean yeah it probably hurts but she also knows that we love her and with us she has a better life and she is grateful for that.
as far as rape.well I couldn't even say, that is a hard choice.
The reason why there are so many teen pregnancies, is because they gotta "scratch it when it itches", if you know what I'm saying. The lack of disipline and the lack of understanding the conciquences of our actions will lead our generation to destruction. - 11 months ago
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That's right when these young girls and guys don't even think before having sex with out protection with that whole dumb stuff about "he pulls out before he cums" not realizing or not caring that pre-cum can still get you pregnant. But we can't put all the blame on these young people either, Parents also have a big responsibility, some parents are just so scared about talking to their kids about save sex and then they wonder why they are grandparents so early. - 11 months ago
It's not revenge, it's taking care of what happened to you. ShatteredRazor isn't even saying it as revenge! You totally warped that one. - 11 months ago
What the hell!?? revenge? ah no. its saving the child from being unloved. many women are mentally unstable after rape. carrying the rapists child would send many over the edge. - 9 months ago
I believe its better to have 45,000,000 babies aborted every year then to have 45,000,000 babies born to teenage moms, rape vitcims, unwed couples, etc etc. I would rather save these children of a life of pain, remorse, and hardship then to have them living in a unloving, poor, household. With the teenage pregnancy rate increasing, I find that aboration may be the answer in these situations. We have kids having kids. We have kids droping out of high school do to pregnancy. WE have kids not going to college because of having children to early. We have so many people on welfare these days do to the fact people are having babies unplanned, no jobs, no educate, no parenting, no anything.
With rape victims-no its not the babies fault, nor is it is the mothers. I do not see how any rape victim could carry a baby from the tragic mishap. Isn't it doing more danger to the baby living inside of a women who is depressed, angry, upset, stressed all the time. No only did this women get raped - she carried the baby of her rapist.
We have so many children being born to poor families, drug addicted, alcohol, people with no jobs. why put kids up to that kind of life.
I am alll for adpotation but its getting hard and hard to find families wanting to adpot.
Some of the answers here are depressing. So many of you feel that every child is doomed to failure if it's born in a bad situation. Sure, that could happen, but take a moment to ponder the other side. That child could be the next President. He or she could grow up in a bad situation, but through determination and hard work puts themselves through school and goes on to a great life. In this country, times are hard now, but there is still the chance to achieve anything you want in life. - 11 months ago
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That is very true..and I completely agree! But honestly, what are the chances of a child achieving anything if they don't have people behind them supporting them. Finanicly, emotionly,and physically. Look at how many of these kids are in froster care, how many people are living on welfare, and how many people are without jobs. Sure, there very well good achieve greatness but HOW ? - 11 months ago
Through good teachers or family members. Or just through their own personal determination to take a look around and say I'm not going to accept this. Look at our new President. I didn't vote for him, but you have to admire the fact that he was born into a very bad situation, but he worked hard and made the most of the oppurtunities this country offers. His mom gave him a chance at life and he made the most of it. IMO we should not just carte blanche abort any kid in a bad situation. - 11 months ago
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I understand you points... I agree my hand go up to those that have lived in bad situations and completely turned their lives around. Congrats to them... All I'm saying is...a women should have the RIGHT to choose to abort her baby. I'm all for adopt.. in my own personal opinion..I was a teenage mom living on welfare...I have two kids.. and my sister who is nineteen has three kids...neither her nor her husband ahve jobs.. and live with me..I'm working three job- to support 5 kids - 11 months ago
Can't these people that live with you help out and go to work? I certainly respect your opinion. I like a good debate and hearing how those on the choice side see things. I would just say as a counter point that if a person makes that choice there are emotional consequences they may have to live with depending on what kind of conscience they have. They may look back when they're 60 or 70 with regret and that's not often talked about. Maybe they can live with that, but maybe some can't. - 11 months ago
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I agree but that's a choice they will be taking when making the decision. And yes, they could but neither of them finished high school. Their kids are 2,1, and one month....They can't afford a babysitter so one of them has to stay home.. I feel bad for the kids is the only reason I'm doing it. - 11 months ago
I think that if you are willing to have sex and you know that you can get pregnant that you should face the concequences. DONT HAVE ABORTIONS!!! they are wrong and evil. - 11 months ago
Jeff I agree with you because my cousin was born to a mother that wanted nothing to do with her yet my aunt adopted her, gave her a great live she is now starting The science Tech high school which is the (Rutgers of high schools) here in Middlesex. This school is very hard to get into. This child was born into poverty and has been raised like a princess and I stop to think if her mother would have aborted her I wouldn't know this wonderful person that gave my aunts live a meaning. - 11 months ago
I was born to a 16 year old mother and was adopted at 5 1/2 months old. I was very fortunate to grow up in a warm, loving, and wealthy family. Had this not been the case, I wouldn't have had the opportunities or resources that I've had and would be a vastly different person than I am today.
I am different than most adopted kids because being adopted made me all the more pro-choice rather than pro-life. As long as the abortion is performed early enough, I would encourage any young girl to get one and then learn how to be more responsible with birth control.
Some of you will probably comment and tell me that this is outrageous, but think about it, if you weren't born, who would miss you? Certainly not your friends or extended family, because they wouldn't know that you were missing from their lives. They wouldn't look back and say, "gee, I wish Jimmy had been born so we could kick it." The truth is that the only person who would suffer would be the mother if she hadn't been mentally and emotionally prepared to make this choice.
In a lot of cases, mistakes were made, tequila shots were taken, condoms broke, etc. and the conception of a baby was totally unexpected and would be life-ruining to both the prospective mother AND her baby, who would likely be born without the resources necessary to succeed and rise above poverty and environment. Yes you should be responsible and take birth control, use condoms, but when you take those precautions and those methods fail, sometimes an early term abortion is the appropriate solution.
It's obvious most people fall into two categories. I respect the other side's opinion. I was raised to believe in the sanctity of life. It's easy to sit here and say save the child no matter what because I'm not a woman, but it's all I can do. I can't change who I am, but I feel strongly in my heart if I was female and the victim of rape, I would save the child and give it up for adoption. Sure it could have a bad life or good life. Some of you may change your opinion if you ever have kids - 11 months ago
i think its bull shit if you didn't want to have a baby you shouldnt of had the sex its her own fault and if she wants to get rid of it then fine at least give the baby a chance to live give it up for adoption it has just as much right to live as the mother and father of this baby should
What about women that get raped? what about young girls too immature to realise the consequences? there are so many extenuating circumstances that can contribute. its completely iggnorant of you to place all women in the same basket - 11 months ago
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Yes they may have been raped but the baby could still be put up for adoption it still should have a chance and for the girls who are too immature again its their fault they should have to deal with the consequesnces as well as realize them - 11 months ago
The reality is that the child will have to live with the mother who is living with the consequences. But you're not dealing with reality are you, claydough? - 11 months ago
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Reality is that the baby should still be able to have a chance to live and the mother can give it up for adoption that's reality - 11 months ago
i think its because people are irresponsible about sex. unprotected sex, having sex with multiple partners without caring. you should be smart about it and use condoms or go on birth control or SOMETHING.
because face it if you took care of that in the first place, abortions wouldn't be so common.
Rape still shouldnt mean the killing of something that had no choice in it to be killed that's like you getting raped and then the baby you already had getting murderd for it a little effed up don't ya think? - 11 months ago
ITS NOT A LIVING THING YET!!! if a girl gets raped why should she have to live with a constant physical reminder of the trauma she endured - 11 months ago
Sadly, there are a lot of people working hard to make certain kids don't have access to basic birth control information. Blaming the victim is kinda tacky. - 11 months ago
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I think sex should be vetoed for a year to 5 years. Sex should be made illegal for 5 years or untill people get their heads straightened out. Why do we need sex in todays day and age, it just causes problems? - 11 months ago
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I strongly strongly disagree lol - 11 months ago
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You just need to be smart about it that's all - 11 months ago
abortion is a choice for a woman and a woman only no man has the right to denergrate a woman because of her choices. Abortion if done properly and at the right time the embryo will not feel anything- contrary to what the religious fanatics may tell you.
It is a matter of choice, and yes a mother has the right to kill her unborn to save her own life. There are many reasons why woman choose to abort there babies one being that they know that they will not be able to provde the best life for that child at that moment, they were raped and they do not want to have the child of a man who took that away from them, they know that the father is not going to be there, mainly just to young.Technically in pregnancy your baby is still an embryo at 4 weeks and his heart does not start to beat until the 5th so if you were to get you abortion in that time you would be only killing a cell.
I know that some people take advantage of this and use it as a routine birth control.THAT. right there is not right. If this right were too be taken away you have a risk of overpopulation, death by back alley illegal contraception, children being left abandoned. Would you rather see that happen.
I can see if the mother's life was in danger, yes. I just say even if the baby is not wanted, there are thousands of couples out there who would love to have a baby but just can't conceive. If at all possible, give women the resources to make it through the pregnancy and give it it up for adoption. Give the baby a chance. It has no voice. Also, guys should have a say before there's an abortion. I would gladly take the baby if my girlfriend would just make it to delivery. - 11 months ago
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Most of the time the guy is the one encouraging the girl to go out and get an abortion..Adoption is not what it is all reved up to be because there are still millions of kids sitting without a home going from place to place..that is no way at all to live...than you always have that point in time where the kid wants to know where he came from, and then you have to deal with that question of why did you leave them. - 11 months ago
Jeff-in-louisiana, like I said before, what if it was a rape case? should the woman keep the baby and put it up for adoption? - 11 months ago
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Personally I would not keep the child of a man that just raped me..i would take that as a reminder of how violated and defeated I was. You say something about the emotional stress that comes along after having an abortion but the emotional stress of having the child of a man that raped you is even greater and to put the baby up for adoption..when that child finds you and wants to know why you abandoned them anything will Not clear up the emotional stress that the child is feeling. - 11 months ago
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It is sad that we have moved all of life to genetics and cold scientific calculations and so we predict the future with these calculations. Predetermination... Watch the movie "Gaticka". The future seems bleek. - 11 months ago
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I don't get any of my answers from "scientific calculation" or "Predetermination" I ve seen it happen before. I don't need to watch a Fictional movie to know what's happening in real life. - 11 months ago
Well I saw something about abortion on tv once and I decided back then that if I would get pregnant I would keep it. If it's really necessary, ok, but I know people who have had three abortions. like it's birth control or something. That to me is just wrong.
Abortion is a very diverse subject. Yes it does kill but the governemnt or any one else does not have the right to tell woman waht do with their body. It is the chioce of the woman and it should be left at that. If abortion is made illegal people will still do it and it will be very unsafe.
A child is not the mother's body. Once fertilized it's100% a complete human being. That has been proven by every standard. Abortion is a moral issue of the gavest conquence and getting it right is of most importance. The legality means nothing if it's morally wrong. God's laws always take priority over man's laws, and each of us will have to give an account to only one, and that's God. If abortion is made illegal, sure some people will get back street abortion. Their choice, and a bad one. - 11 months ago
Whos god? not everyone believes in it you know. And it is completely uneducated to think that a fertilized egg is a human being- get a grip I bet your a man bloody typical. Don't speak about things that will never effect you!!! - 11 months ago
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There is this thing called seperation of religion and state. You can not mix your own beliefs with the government. Techinically the fertilized eggis in the womans`s body so it is truly a womans choice. They should keep it that way and not get involved - 11 months ago
As long as it is attached to the womans body and using her energy, her food, her nutrients, her strength, then YES it is part of her body and she can do what she wants with it. Some situations demand an abortion. I do not agree with late term abortions but in the first 3 months is just fine. Until the FETUS has a heart beat and brain waves it is just that, a FETUS! - 11 months ago
Depends Defo ok if its for these reasons. *Rape *Young *No money
I think the first *. is definately allowed not just for the mother but for the child. How would the child feel being only created by such an act, It'll be horrible.
According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), there were 854,122 legal induced abortions in the US in 2003. It is embryos or fetuses, not babies.
Women shouldn't take advantage of it. It is not some means of birth control. Just because the woman was irresponsible doesn't mean she should go out and get an abortion. Why do we have condoms, birth control. I think it should be available in emergencies like rape and what not.
I have heard that hormonal birth control has been ridiculed for causing the endometrial lining to thicken, so that a fertilized egg cannot implant in it. This happens naturally in the body, which flushes some 80% of the fertilized eggs out anyway. So is it an abortion to use hormonal birth control, if an egg is fertilized? I agree with you, that it should be available for emergencies like rape. :) - 11 months ago
I think that abortion is wrong unless the baby has a life-threatening condition. If the baby is unwanted, the mother should give birth to it but then adopt it. If the baby is wanted and loved, it will have a better chance than if it's killed before it's born.
I am and always will be against it. If you had the responsibility mindset to have sex, then you should accept the consequences that also require a responsible mindset. The only exception I feel should be if the mothers life is in jeopardy, but I find this to be incredibly rare and overused to promote abortion rights.
Is the value of life relative, how is that value measured? does the life of a human baby equal that of an adult? does that value extend to the sperm and the egg, or they only half each (or 60/40 something like that?)?
If the value of life is relative, that some life has more value than that of another, then how are we to judge that? where is the line 'this has life, this does not' and where does it change? a very hairy baby or a fairly bald geneticlly altered monkey?
If the value is not relative, then all life is equal, then would not washing your hands clean of bacteria be a holocaust of life being exterminated? would eating a hamburger contribute to the murder of a life equal to that of an abortion?
In a more literal sense, is the baby not part of the woman? does the mother not breath, eat, drink, essentially LIVE for the baby? then, does the woman have a right to her own life?
other hand says: its also because of the father that the baby exists, so wouldnt' he have a right? one sperm is all it took, so would the man still be equal and the investment of one cell into the being of life?
is it not curious how I have not put forth my opinion, but at most, offered up my questions upon every statement?
It's impossible to reach a consensus on something like this because the views are all over the map, but the bottom line is that it should never be taken away as a option because no one can say under every circumstance that it shouldnt be allowed. Frankly the right of the person giving birth to a potential new life should easily be considered more important. Considering how big a deal birth is in general, removing the option just ends up putting more than just the potential child's life at risk. If the right is removed and a female becomes desperate enough they may injure themselves as well as the potential life that the removal of the right was intended to save. Add to that the strain that unwanted births can put on a government system that already fails millions of children a day and it would seem like people just want to increase the over all suffering in the world.
But this (the act of abortion) isn't the root of the problem, what needs to happen is for there to be less reason for it to happen at all. Reduction of rapes and/or abuse, teaching people to use protection, or teaching them abstinance or even just not to do it unless they're absolutely certain of what they're about to do, would probably go miles further to reduce the need for the practice.
I had a friend and he got his girl friend pregnate and he wanted to keep the babby. she got an abortion without him knowing and needless to say he broke up with her the seckond he found out. I think an abortion should be signed by the girl and the guy (unless it's a case of rape)
There is no way in hell that statistic is correct. There are approximately 300 million people living in the United States, so that is like one out of every six humans (we're including males and females here) having an abortion once yearly. And I don't think the fetus should be discarded like a used tissue; I think we should USE THE TISSUE--the totipotent stem cells of the developing fetus--to accomplish something worthwhile. Granted, abortion is an ugly thing, but stem cell research could be the silver lining. Just imagine what we could accomplish if the silly restrictions currently in place were lifted. Born blind? Here, let us grow you a pair of functional eyes so that you may experience sight. Drink your liver away? No worries. Need a heart transplant? We've got you covered. However, I'm getting off topic. Yes, I support a woman's right to choose. Some things are worse than death.
Well beyond the totally mistaken fact that you started with and the fact that this is probably the single most polarizing topic possible, it's my opinion that a woman should have the right to control her own body. If that means that she wants to give it up to every passing sailor and ends up aborting anything that grows until she's acquired some nasty creeping crud then it's her right. OK Flame away...
• Nearly half of pregnancies among American women are unintended, and four in 10 of these are terminated by abortion.[1] Twenty-two percent of all pregnancies (excluding miscarriages) end in abortion.[2]
• Forty percent of pregnancies among white women, 69% among blacks and 54% among Hispanics are unintended.
• In 2005, 1.21 million abortions were performed, down from 1.31 million in 2000. From 1973 through 2005, more than 45 million legal abortions occurred.[2]
• Each year, about two percent of women aged 15-44 have an abortion; 47% of them have had at least one previous abortion.[3]
Religion can't be used to make law in the US, because church and state are separate here. Therefore, we need to define the beginning of life in some scientific way, for legal purposes. Obviously, a sperm and an egg aren't humans. Once you take the idea of a soul out of the picture, there really isn't anything special about an embryo either, that you could call it a person. I come down in favor of viability. A fetus, IMHO, becomes a person when it stands a reasonable chance of surviving outside the womb. Before that, I think abortion is regrettable, but not murder. After that, I think it is killing a human.
Then what is so special to a human being either? They could just be used for slave labour to build our economy for the benefit of humanity, or who needs cow burgers, lets rather eat humans, afterall they are just meat, right? You see where we are heading at by applying ideas like that? Religion gives meaning to law and is in fact the origin of law, without it law is just made up nonsense. To base everything upon science alone is not smart. - 9 months ago
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I don't think religion was the origin of law. What did the code of Hamurabi (sp?) have to do with religion? - 9 months ago
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I think you need to take some philosophy classes...you will soon realize that the concepts of right and wrong can exist without religion. - 9 months ago
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Maybe without 'religion' but not without God. Do we base our law upon babylon?
The code of Hamurabi is Babylonian and is very religious. Quote from wikipedia follows (not that wikipedia is so great either) "Hammurabi (ruled ca. 1796 BC 1750 BC) believed that he was chosen by the gods to deliver the law to his people. In the preface to the law code, he states, "Anu and Bel called by name me, Hammurabi, the exalted prince, who feared God, to bring about the rule of righteousness in the land. - 8 months ago
I have known I few people that use abortion as a form of birth control. Most people who get abortions at a young age go through deep depression later in life because they murdered their baby. If people think they are responsible enough to have sex they should be held responsible for the consiquences that might happen. Now even though I think abortion is wrong if it can save the mothers life or if they were raped it should be allowd but these issues need to be investigated.
I think it is bullshit. If you want to mess around in the first place, Then you better clean up the after results. Don't mess around if you can't support what might happen. Easy as that. Unless you have got raped. Then it is slightly ok. I'm not really all into this stuff cause it pisses me of when I hear people are doing this. They are Innocent babies who want to have a life too. So don't even think about aborting it. It hurts to hear it abortion.
Its a womens right to do what she wants to do with her life and her body. If she decides to go threw with an abortion then what can you really do about it. Even if you feal strong about no abortion its not like you can go and adopt every child that was gona be aborted. Its a cruel world we live in and sometimes we must make some descitions that we might not agree with but are for the best.Im just sayng its up to the women to come up with the final descition, but she should consult with the father before going threw with as well.
this ain't about choice. it's all about advancing a anti-American agenda. the pro-abortion pplz will never let the people decide it 4 themselves. wen it was rammed down the throats of this nation back in 1973, judges were handed this task. Besides, whether anyone will admit it or not, this is legalized murder in the name of "women's rights". Most abortion providers are not licensed to do what they do- they couldn't even be a vet. this is true nonsense that this goes on, not to mention it is despicable in the eyez of God Almighty, as the shedding of innocent blood is one of the things He hates. Look at what this scourge has done to Europe. no population growth, just mass migration of Arabs and Muslim peoples. Also, the damage that abortion does to women, both physically and mentally. It's worse than post-partum depression. We as a nation has really devalued life, as most nations worldwide have no true value for life as we do (or supposedly do). In my view, abortion is one of the great crimes against our own people, ranks right up there with slavery, the environmental (Commie) movement (that Global Warming crap is nothing but a sham to get Gov't in ur personal affairs), and outlandish and overreaching "Zero Tolerance" drug laws. In my eyez, abortion is a selfish out- the baby didn't ask to be created. there's all kinds of birth control available OTC like Plan B, Yaz and NuvaRing. Abortion ain't necessary to me.
Maybe the fact that you are so completley niave that you believe that "god almighty" is a notion that shoud govern the moralities of everyone on earth. it is a BELIEF not a reality there are a lot of people who don't believe in this god of yours. Your comment that abortion is "legalised murder" is completely insane, to murder something it has to be living!!!. I hope you ge the help you need one day and I really hope that you never procreate and spread your frightening views to another generation - 11 months ago
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Maybe you should accept the FACT that not everyone thinks like you do.... I'm a realist- you ain't gotta like what I say at all. Just respect the fact that I'm willing to speak my mind- I don't care what you believe.... Just respect my views, because ur not gonna change my mind, just as I'm not gonna change urs.....Who are YOU to judge me? How I believe is mine and mine alone- you don't like it, well, that's just too bad 4u... RESPECT my beliefs, if ur so tolerant.... - 11 months ago
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Mollyb, your views are frightening in the flip side. God is the greatest reality above all things, all other belief systems and theories cannot compare. That is the only fact there ultimately is. If you don't believe me, find out for yourself. - 11 months ago
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Remember, truth (the Word of God) will always trump opinion and man-made trends.... I tend to think that lotsa folk just eat and swallow opinions held by the so-called "elites" in the "World Community", and they don't think 4 themselves.... Now THAT'S scary- folk who don't use trheir brains, they just rather regurgitate gobbledygook they seen on bumper stickers or sumthin they've heard some celebutard say.... there's too much factual evidence that shows that abortion is dangerous.. - 11 months ago
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Molly, just be content to believe what ya wanna- just don't force ur views down anyone else's throats.... and ur da one that needs help, seriously.... Ya need to be getting some kinda help- I hope that you are, being how INTOLERANT and angry ur coming off as... Alls I was doin was answering a question of what I thought on a particular topic... then you wanna pop off and make personal attacks.... typical- you can't face the truth, so you try and shift the argument and make it personal. won't werk.. - 11 months ago
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I'm not saying that out of arrogance at all, but out of humility. Or at least I tried to... I can see now why you saw it as arrogant. I'm sorry about that. I would like to know what your views are on reality. - 11 months ago
My reality is what I can see, hear. touch and taste. this thing you call god is just that to me a thing. I do respect peoples veiws on religion and their varying beliefs. I do not think it is fair to bring this god into a debate that is about the personal choices of women in individual circumstances, belive what you want to belive just don't push it into a debate that has nothing to do with it - 11 months ago
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Molly, ur not gonna change my mind... so let's just drop it- ur wasting ur time on this argument - 11 months ago
Molly, in reality, ur a moron... ya wanna have things both ways. Just drop this subject already and quit wasting both your time and more importantly, my time with this garbage you try and pass off as an argument. Not only have you failed to realize actual facts in what several of us have discussed on this topic, but you have tried to make thhis issue personal. Emotion always loses out to fact. Bone up on ur facts and quit trying to argue thangs you have no clue about.... - 10 months ago
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You seem to be the textbook materialistic atheist. On my side I believe in the physical world just as you but I believe that there is even a greater spiritual world. As most things are unseen that happens to us or around us. Just because one cannot see or touch emotional pain for example, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. From my perspective God has to do with everything even the most detailed things especially individual human lives and their decisions. - 10 months ago
Most people fail to understand the enormous commitment of resources that raising a child requires. The people who are most likely to have an abortion are also most likely to lack the basic resources necessary to raise a child at minimal standards. I don't think anyone has the right to inflict that burden on the unwilling for the sake of their own religious beliefs. If you don't support abortion, don't have one and get out there and help the unfortunates who were foolish enough to have a child they can't support.
It is ironic. I have have heard so many stories about men who rant and rave that it is murder and that every woman should keep the baby to term until of course it happens to them. Then it is okay for them to take their daughter in to have an abortion because she isn't ready for it and then he goes right back out on the picket line.
Let's stop the debate. Nobody wants to have an abortion. They choose an abortion because it is better, for them, than the alternative. Let's instead focus on how to prevent teen pregnancy.
Sorry, you got this so wrong! the excuse let's focus on how to prevent teen pregnancy is such a cop out! if a person don't want to have an abortion then don't have one! abortion may be better for the person getting one at the time, but she's forgotten about the baby waiting to be born, like we all have at one time and how our life journey began. the size and stage of development means nothing because as soon as an egg is fertilized it's a human being, not an animal or just matter with a name. - 11 months ago
This is exactly true, great answer. It's a tough choice, but people need to make the right decision for themselves and their unique circumstances. - 11 months ago
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Cutefirtygirl - I don't think it is a cop out at all. Let's take the debate as to whether abortion is right or wrong and teach people how to limit getting pregnant. It has been proven time and time again that people are going to have sex regardless of the consequences. To borrow from the bible, of which I'm not a complete fan, give a man a fish and he eats for the day teach a man to fish and he eats for a lifetime. Same thing applies here. Let's focus on education so that abortion is limited. - 11 months ago
Hell yeah! I agree 100% with dakadan - 11 months ago
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There were 45 million abortions in the period of 1973 to 2005 and you don't abort babies. I believe abortions area choice that the mother should make. No point in having babies and putting them up for adoption. Orphanage life isn't always the easiest.
As for the updates: Its about choice. The "unborn" isn't considered alive so it can't be killed and unless the mother really wants a child, why shouldn't she save her own life. An alive person is more important than an unborn fetus. Life is more important than the chance of life.
Hang on, the US population is about 300,000,000 and you're saying 45,000,000 abortions occur every year. Let's say 2/3 or 200,000,000 are female which is a gross overestimate. That means that one in six females has had an abortion in the last year.
Your figures are out to lunch. Are you making them up? No wonder it's an anonymous question. Quote your source!
The Guttmacher Institute has statistics related to abortion numbers in the US from 1973 to 2007. The highest it reached is in a ten year span ('82-'92) where the annual number of abortions was 1,600,000. This has decreased steadily from that time to 1,200,000 in 2007.
This represent a drastically lower number than the one tossed out there by this question asker. - 11 months ago
Actually, using your over-estimate and his number would make it more closer to 1 in 4 women had an abortion last year. His age is probably his IQ :) that number is more correct. - 11 months ago
300 million Americans. 150 million women. Subtract prepubescents (under 14: 31 million) and post menopausal (over 50: 37 million) and you have 82 million women of childbearing age. Let's also subtract infertile women, who obviously don't have abortions (8 million). That leaves 74 million women able to bear children. And by his number, nearly TWO-THIRDS will: a. become pregnant, and b. abort the child. I take back my earlier comment. This number isn't high; it's ludicrous. - 11 months ago
Slow down, He just misread. That number is the approximately number of abortions performed in the US since the Rode vs Wade Suppreme Court case in 1973. You might be interested in knowing that according to an article published in Focus on Family magazine, 30 Years of Lies, the plaintiff for the Roe v. Wade case, Norma McCorvey, never even got an abortion after lying to her lawyers about being gang-raped. When she found out the case went all the way to the Supreme Court she attempted suicide. - 11 months ago
When a woman is pregnant; she forms a symbiotic relationship with the life form inside her. If this new life form presents a mortal threat to the host ( the Mother); it is logical for the host to abort the danger. If a woman is raped, and as a result gets impregnated; then she has the right to expel the rapist seed from her body. Now if she is irresponsible, and sleep's with very penis she see's without giving consideration to the consequences; then I am not in favor of her having this abortion.
I think that instead of trying to make it illegal to have the Right to Lifer's should focus on preventing pregnancy. Since people are going to have sex regardless of the consequences maybe education about how to be safer will reduce the number. Just look at other countries who are not as uptight about sex as the US for clear examples of what works.
If after all of that an unwanted pregnancy happens then, since it is inside a woman's body then it is her choice as to what she does with it.
Vote F Other It's unfortunate that any have to be performed, but the tide is slowing turning toward fewer and fewer abortions. Some states are enacting laws requiring women to view a sonogram of their baby before they go through with the abortion. Studies have shown only a minority choose the abortion after seeing it. The technology is so advanced with sonograms now, you can see so much more. There is little room left for the argument that it is not a person. If women knew the psychological toll it takes on you afterwards there be fewer still. Let's give women all the facts before they make the choice. Personally, I'm against abortion.
First of all how would you know anything about the psychological toll it takes ? have you had one? secondly have you ever seen a sonogram of a 8 week old embryo? it looks like nothing just a blob with a small flicker. Stop reciting what you read in your religious magazines or wherever it is that you get your generalised information. Get the facts right by actually speaking to women who have been through this before, because as a man you will NEVER understand - 11 months ago
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Of course Molly, I'm not entitled to an opinion because I'm a man and not a woman, right? Are you saying a woman that has an abortion could not years later regret it? That at that time she thought it was a choice and not a life? That later she realizes that could have been a life she took? You're naive if you think that. You choose to just see your side and not even consider the other side.. I've said in my comments above I respect and see the other side's opinion. Can you say the same? - 11 months ago
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Instead of being mad at me and dismissing my opinion, just take the time to peruse the internet and you will see stories of women regretting it. Some do not regret it that is true. I don't "get" my opinion from religious magazines. I took the time to research both sides of it and I know someone who's been through it. The woman who started the whole abortion issue (Roe v Wade) in America also now regrets ever having had one. But you didn't bother to look that up I'll bet. It's out there. - 11 months ago
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Read this if you want to Molly. It's up to you. Thanks. link
Speak to REAL women not on the internet people that you can look at when they are talking to you. I have been through two abortions and they were MY choice and I don't regret them because if I hadnt had them then I wouldn't have the life I do today. Its not a selfish choice my decision was for the greater good of both the POTENTIAL lives. - 11 months ago
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I have spoken to a REAL woman that went through it. She regrets it. You don't. That's your decision. You were trying to say no one would regret it, it's a woman's choice and only women can comment on this. Maybe most guys that when faced with that situation want their girlfriend to abort the baby. But there are a lot of guys like me that would take on that responsibility of being a father if the mother didn't want the baby and they feel like they have no voice in the matter unfortunately. - 11 months ago
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