You be nice to a girl once and you get put in the friend zone, I hate it, I wish it was different, who else agrees?
Update: Well, from my point of view it sucks because there's this girl that I like and I don't chase her or stalk her or anything like that, all I did was pull her out of her car that she flipped and I waited with her till her dad came to pick her up.
8 months ago
Update: And so now I'm afraid that she only thinks me as a good friend, lol which I'm fine with but I want more than a friendship.
8 months ago
When a guy is nice to me I think that they are at least interested in me somehow, be it friend or more. Usually acts of kindness make me wonder if there could be something there.
Being nice doesn't put you in the friend zone, but if you don't flirt or show some sign of interest that will. You need to make a move or else she will just see you as a friend.
I'm gonna agree here, It's not the "nice" that puts you there. It's the first impression. What are you there to do? Be her shoulder to cry on? if so then that's what she thinks of you. If the friendship is worth sacrificing, make the move. - 8 months ago
I really don't think that just because you are being nice to a girl that it puts you into the "friend" zone. The only reason that you would be put into the aforementioned "friend zone" is because she simply isn't attracted to you. Now, even if a girl isn't attracted to you now, doesn't mean that can't change someday. Just keep being there for you and let her know that you appreciate what you have with her. Don't smother her or crowd her. And either you will have a girlfriend someday, or you will have a very good, trusting friend. Truthfully, either way you win.
I don't agree because that's how the whole progress of relationship starts - with a friendship, I mean I need to get to know you first but than again going out is actually getting to know each other, you never know maybe she'll change her mind. But if you think about it friendship turns into something else - so consider this friend to a lover if it's meant to be.
Well, I am 35. I have this friend, and SHE is HOT.
Now, I am married, and I've been faithful. But I am her good friend. I spot her cash when she needs it (her BF is an A-hole, mean, etc.). She's never had a best friend as a guy. Sure I stare at her ass HARD. No, she doesn't know. What should I say "hey pal, I love hanging out with you, but wow you're blindingly hot?!"
No, I respect her -- because she's been a great friend to me, in ways that would take me the constitution to type... so, what does a guy do? Be her friend. Be her BEST friend, if you can. Never lay a hand on her. Why? Because that's GOLD in your hand, my young man.
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