Interracial dating/relationships?

People should just stick to their own race.

If I love her I will pursue her. Race doesn't matter to me at all. Simple as that.

I totally see no problem with that. Most of my fantasies are inter racial and I would love to explore all the races before I get married and I hope the wife will be of a different race too.

I totally see no problem with that. Most of my fantasies are inter racial and I would love to explore all the races before I get married and I hope the wife will be of a different race too.

Do people really still care about this? it doesn't even strike me as notable anymore. Love (and/or f***) whomever you like.

I was dating a black girl in chicago (about 18 years ago) and I was surprised that black people thought it was ok to stop us and inquire into the nature of our relationship. When I patiently explained that it involved oral sex and sodomy, they got the idea that the social pressure wasn't going to work.

I can dig it.

Nah but come on, you know how black girls can be on this issue, they're too close minded...

If they were truly your friends they'd be supportive of you. As far as interracial dating you have good and bad in every culture. You could be white and date a white girl who treats you like dirt yet find an arabian girl or a girl who is of mixed nationalities and she treats you as a person, supports you and loves you. I am mixed and have my preferences but I have seen some of those preferences be either immature or just not for me. As long as someone loves you it isn't about their nationality and the term "color" shouldn't be used. It's so 1950's/1960's

the reason I usually stick to my race is because of the culture we share it's not about color. I just feel like I can relate more to someone of my race.

I always say that love sees no color and you should like whoever you want to like. Who are they to say you cant? Interacial love/dating/marriages are becoming more common than you could ever imagine and I think its great and beautiful! :)

I love seeing interracial couples..its awesome!, I hope that when I have kids, I don't want them to see race when they fall in love with someone, I'm sure I'll be an example to them ;)...eventually it won't matter and no one will notice...

I guess I am lucky that all my friends love me and could care less. I mean most of them are white but my other chick friend who is black dates outside her race too. None of us care at all. I mean one of my white friends is dating a black guy and my black friend is dating an asian chick. I'm black Irish and Indian so I'm kinda dating interracially anyway. I mean I suppose the only thhing that I have dealt with that kinda sucks is when you start dating someone and you find out that they have this one racist family member or something. It sucks. With that my main concern would be the parents. As long as I don't have to deal with any unpleasantness with them, I don't care about some astranged uncle. My family loves and supports me and so do my friends so I'm glad. You like who you like and it shouldnt matter.

Theres nothing wrong with them.

interracial relationships are refreshing...its great to see people moving out of their race and meeting others and such

i think it's what you want that matters.

i'm a happa baby myself. dad was dutch, mom was chinese/ viet so put them together and *poof* there I am. I'm a halfie, it think it's alright if the two people understand each other.

my mom always said my dad tried to get to know her, was not like superficial, caring and just a gentle men to her.
my dad liked my mom cause she's smart, is funny etc.

it's hard I know. I live wih just my mom and it's like she doesn't mind me dating outside my norm, but I've only been dating white guys and it's alright I guess. I think race isn't everything. not all white guys are good, but not all of them are like racists lol. so just take the time to get to know the guy and go from there.

I think you should ignore your friends and their opinions. You are your own your person and if prefer to date another races then go for it. It doesn't matter what races the guys are, they are still male and have everything the same.

Ive heard the whole "stick to my own" argument all my life... Thing is, I have a thing for blondes...from my first crush to my current bf, just catches my eye. (Actually, my boyfriend dyed his hair when I met him...when I found out he was a natural blonde I about gushed myself..lol now he doesn't dye it anymore...YaY!) So yeah, the grand majority of the guys who catch my eye are white, but its not what I look for.

Ive dated guys of all races...black, white, latino, asian..its not like Ill only date one race, or only outside of my race, or only within my race... I'm dating the guy, not his skin colour...and I stay away from getting involved with people who limit the races the get involved with...yes even the "I love black girls" guys (like a question I read earlier on here...abotu how he likes black girls cause we taste and smell different) Anyone who has a problem with that can keep it to themselves, cause I'm not hearing any of it.

i really don't care about interracial dating. except when a white/black girl/ guy feels she/he has to change or better yet Try to imitate a black culture, I find it disrespectful to me, and that's how most african americans feel. I think that if a person just ACT themselves African Americans want feel so hurt about their culture bein taken as a joke. I don't think your friends being racist, but I think they are being ignorant. you can't blame them for that because that is how they were raised. I too like different races, but puerto ricans are soooo freaky in bed.lol. girl they will give you an ORGASM out of this world.lol

Interracial love is the most beautiful because it's like you're telling the world: I don't care I love him/her!

I have the PERFECT answer for this because I'm the same way! If I were you I'd just ignore my friends. Obviously THEY have a problem with it, but you shouldn't feel bad about it. Being attracted to other races isn't going to kill you so I would say no worries.

Sounds like their being racist to me. I don't see one single thing wrong with marrying someone of a different color. My husband is a different color...he's white...just a different color white :D You can't help who you fall for. And if you don't allow yourself to fall for someone because of color, you could really be missing out. Tell them that.