Boys night out - why is it such a big deal?

Tell her staright be like that you need some space

tell her where your going and please not to come bacause you have to catch up with your 'buds'. it should help

What only one person has seemed to realize is this girl that youre with probably thinks youre going to end up going out to a "ladies " club or something like that. You need to see if she thinks youre going to cheat on her before you decide to tell her " noipe you can't go, its just for us" don't some of you guys think that's how YOUR feelings would be if YOUR girlfiend said that she wanted to go for a girls night out?

Ok just tell her she will understand, and if she don't understand she is not the girl for you. Cause if my boyfriend wanted to go-out with the guys that would be fine , and I would not tag along. People need there space even lovers do. SO make sure you and your girlfriend have good communication it will help the relationship.

be like hey can I have one night on my own and I will spend a whole night with just you
and to reasure you there's just going to be guys there cause its a GUYS NIGHT OUT so don't worry

Insecurity

Just be up front with her. Tell her you would like to hang out with just the guys like she does with her friends when they go shopping or whatever she likes to do with her friends. Compare it with her life so she doesnt' take it personally. She should understand that. If she is one of those overprotective and overlysuspicious people than anything you say won't appease her.

Tell her however you can tell her- but if she gets mad then make it up to her... if she's a good girl to you then she'll understand

Tell her exactly how you feel. I'm sure she goes out with the girls without you, I know I do, and you deserve some time to yourself. the next time she tries to 'tag along' just tell her the boys are ecpecting you... and ONLY you. tell her you'll bring her next time, and if she doesn't understand that you need leisure time too, you two need to have a serious talk.

I hate guys that think they're in control-because they're not-! and you should just talk to her and try to set up nights when there would be your 'guys night out' and at the same time she can have her 'girls night out'

Tell her straight forward with honesty. Don't be harsh about it, but tell her that you want some time with your friends and it would be awkward if she was the only girl that came. It's guy time. When I want time with my friends, I just tell my boyfriend that it's time for "me-time".

Yeah talk to her like that, and I hope she slaps you in the face!

Just tell her that you are going out on a boys night, and then plan to do something with her later in the week.

Tell her that you just want to chill with the guys for a while.

Tell her you all planned to have a boys night out.

Be like, I'm busy... School/Work has called me in for a bit, give me a couple hours.

as the third person said, make plans for later on just with her it might make her feel more special that your setting time aside just for you and her!

Wow, most people that answered this are pricks. The reason she's insecure about your guys night out is that she thinks you'll cheat, or she's just clingy. (Which isn't a bad thing ladies) (Sometimes)