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Is the word "love" overused, over/under rated, and over glorified or is it lovely in all its capacities?

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seregiel (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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There are so many ways to use the word love. There exists brotherly love, platonic love, love of family and love between comrades. There is also love between ... well "lovers" (amore/romantic love and sexual love/lust). Then people say that they love something: think country, state, color, book, etc. or some activity: skiing, traveling, martial arts etc.


Disregarding what people define as love, because I believe to each person there belongs a different definition, do you think its over use in society cheapens the word? Do you think it is even overused or that each use is appropriate in context? Do you think even if you love someone that you should use it sparingly and just show it in actions so that when you do use the word it is an action unto itself? Have you ever caught yourself using the word love and either not meaning it or using it to an express an emotion other than love itself (i.e. enjoyment)?

All of these questions lead to one main question: when you hear the word "love" what response does it trigger in you, and do you think it would trigger a different response if its use was more specific/less frequent?


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People use the word love in too many contexts! It cheapens the word!

The word love is overused, but it still conveys its meaning in context.

It's hard to tell when the person who uses the word

The word love fits in all the ways that it is used.

The word love doesn't really matter, it's all about behavior.

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Simple-Simonette
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Simple-Simonette      When: 5 months ago
Words are cheap. "Love" is a sound made by the passage of air through the vocal cords. And there are thousands of ways to say it - depending on what language you speak. To try and encompass feelings and emotions with a sound so readily available is impossible. "Love" is indescribable, that's why there are thousands of poems, songs, stories, and movies that revolve around the feeling that we all seem to crave. It means different things to different people - how can you try and contain it with just one word?
Because we a all unique individuals, it will mean something different to each and every one of us. Whether or not it's overused, underused, or abused - it depends on the context in which it is being used, on the person who utters it or writes it or cries it - it's just a word.
When someone tells me they love me, I tell them - "Show me". And when they do, it transcends language.
When I say "I love you" I mean it every time - it can be to something inanimate like a piece of chocolate that soothes my palate, or the babies I have that kiss me awake. I say it a lot, but I show it even more.
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Littletad
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Littletad      When: 5 months ago
I rarely say it, even after months. I only say it when I truly mean it, and even then, it's incredibly rare. Whenever someone tells me that, I let it slip and pretend I didn't hear it. I only think someone can ever truly love me after a year or so. I don't know, I'm weird.
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Question Asker Should you let it slip and make them feel the cold shoulder, or do you think it would be better if you acknowledged it and explained why you couldn't reply with similar sentiments at the given time? - 5 months ago
 

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aceofdiamond
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aceofdiamond      When: 5 months ago
i can't vote, I think. but the thing is, an abusive girlfriend/boyfriend will use the word "love" to get their partner to do as they want. they will fight with you and maybe even hurt you and later they will tell you "i love you". the word won't mean anything. many people abuse the word "love" just so they can get others to do as they wish.
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Question Asker The abusive one may, but so will the one who actually cares, yes? - 5 months ago
Answerer Of course. my own family does it to get me to work for them. really annoying. - 5 months ago

coleyheart
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coleyheart      When: 5 months ago
when someone tells me they love me, I guess I feel excited, expecially if it's someone I like too. in a lot of relationships I feel girls say it quicker then most guys do, only because girls, one out of ten, fall faster then guy. the word is over-used and I hope everyone waits until they really do love someone to say it.
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xxangel1990xx
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xxangel1990xx      When: 5 months ago
People chuck the word love around too much. It only cheapens the word for those people. The people that tell there boyfriend/girlfriend they love them after a week of dating. The only people in the world that I love are my family and close friends. I have never been in love with a boyfriend and have never told a boyfriend that I love them. For me, it takes months to love someone. If people say it after a week when they aren't even in love it will mean nothing to say it to each other when they actually are in love.
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valentin87 "For me, it takes months to love someone. If people say it after a week when they aren't even in love it will mean nothing to say it to each other when they actually are in love." that's the best thing you've ever said. - 5 months ago
Answerer Best thing I've ever said on here you mean. lol. - 5 months ago
Question Asker So you would propose that those people who say it so soon aren't in love, that they are overstating their current feelings or they can't be in love by your definition of the process? - 5 months ago
Answerer Yep that's what I think. They might think they are in love but I doubt they are so soon, tbh I think most people say it even though they know they aren't in love. It's really sad that the love word has become overused and has little meaning to a lot of people nowadays. - 5 months ago

Reeses-pieces777
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Reeses-pieces777      When: 5 months ago
I think sometimes it's overrated. because people will proclaim they love you, when really, they do not. love is something that takes time to build and obviously I can't love someone after a day of meeting with them. I reserve it for someone who I feel is someone I actually love.
When I heard one guy I dated for a few days, after the 3rd date, he said he loved me ... lol. I said" you're just infatuated with me"-so sometimes the word 'love' is misused, that's what I think
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Question Asker What do you think is worse? Unintentional misuse or purposely doing so? Even if the latter is just a response or to solicate a strong emotion. I think that the first can sometimes be more damaging because the other person can read into it for the real thing and try to act accordingly. - 5 months ago

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BioStar      When: 5 months ago
I admit I use it a lot for people I don't even care about so much so that I don't even know what it means anymore. The feeling I used to get when I said it is gone its the same as saying "hi"
which is really scary because I don't even know when I mean it anymore. My boyfriend said he loved me a few days ago and I felt nothing really I mean it was nice and he said it like he meant it but it again felt like a greeting I think iv over used it.
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Question Asker I understand that, many people I know, even just aquaintances after a fun day of paling around will say the word "love" in parting. - 5 months ago
 
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