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Should I listen to my head or my heart?

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Anonymous User (Age:36 to 45)     When: 4 months ago
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When it comes to women both my head and heart have to agree. A friend of mine told me to listen to my heart. My question is this true should I listen to my heart more when it comes to women.

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MysteryChu
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MysteryChu (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
Even if you listen to your head now, your heart will eventually win out. So save the extra step and go with your heart.
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mana01
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mana01 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
I think both ways can screw you up.
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cheannel06
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cheannel06 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
It really depends because if you listen to your heart it could get you in trouble but then it could also help you in the long run while your head could be telling you something but you don't even consider what your head is feeling is right for you but then on the other hand your head should be telling you the wrong thing. I'm not saying you should just listen to just your heart but you should consider listening to both of them and follow what you think is best for you and not anybody else.
I'm sorry if I haven't helped you but this is what I think is the right thing for you to do.
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flowerbeauty21
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flowerbeauty21 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Well in my case I would tell you to listen to your heart. I know that when it comes to guys who like girls, they tend to listen to their head more than their heart, I don't know why, but if I were you I would listen to my heart, it'll lead you in the right direction.
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idkwhatodo
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idkwhatodo (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Its really up to you, most girls find that rare to find. So it is a upper. But it does take a lot to be that way too
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lostandconfused
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lostandconfused (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
I believe too many guys think with their heads and then egos and pride can get in the way of true happiness. I believe in thinking with your heart, though it may hurt more if it breaks, at least you were true to your feelings and gave it your all.
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Belleza
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Belleza (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
It's a really interesting yet complicated question because when it comes to anything not only women most of us listen to our heads rather than hearts. But usually our subconscious takes over - and we listen to our heads, I always say this follow your heart - what your heart feels and wants! Our heads might be - actually is very stubborn because we don't want to allow good things to happen to us and sometimes we feel as though we don't deserve this so we never take our chances - that's why I try to listen as much to my heart rather than my head!
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Stanley
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Stanley (Age:30 to 35)      When: 3 months ago
I say your heart. I don't experience a difference myself between the two. The best is to hear your inner voice. That has been right for me nearly every time I've trusted it.
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Ichigo
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Ichigo (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
Well buddy it all comes down both with logic and heart. May sound confusing but its a better choice then just using one. Use your logic to find out what's right about what you have to do with your heart. It helps from doing stupid stuff I used it before. Just don't let one get too much just follow your mind and heart.
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Quackpotty
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Quackpotty (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
I say listen to your heart more than your head. That's not to say that you ignore your head but the heart should take preference. All heart is dangerous, as it makes you stupid (bluntly put, I know, but you can't deny it). All head and no heart makes a relationship boring and I can't imagine a girl being too interested in that.
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lovebird01
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lovebird01 (Age:Over 45)      When: 4 months ago
Unfortunately we can't think with our heart. It just does what it wants! And makes us hurt so bad when it gets broken. We always have to follow it. We have no choice!
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ionlife
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ionlife (Age:36 to 45)      When: 4 months ago
I'll complicate it and say, listen to your gut... :)

A while ago I was told, "The mind doubts, but the heart never does."

... and this is universally applicable to all things in life, not just women, although I admit that they tend to occupy a good portion of our lives.
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The-Nash Haha, good answer! - 4 months ago
 
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