Ok, I had the weekend off of work, and I was talking to one of my good freinds about what is going on this weekend in our home town, he said nothing really, then I was so bored I was roaming through the myspace and came accross a girl that I knew since like 5th grade, but never said anything about having a crush on her, because she had her friends and I had mine, and when it really came down to it in High school, I never said anything because I was the shy Jock, you know the under the radar type of person who liked to be known on the field but never in the "party scene" because I thought It would give me a bad rep with the coaches. So back to a few weeks ago, I asked her for her number, and she gave it, I called her when I said I was going to be in town, we went out to eat, then we went out to the bar to meet a few friends and just see what was going down in the town that night. And you know she called me and texted me saying that she missed me and things like that, because she kept asking me "why are you so nice to me" and I said "this is just me, I'm not cocky, I'm not a clingy person, I just like to have a mellow vibe and go with the flow most of the time. So anyways. She just ditches me and doesn't answer my calls or text's for about 4 days, then I come in town and I find out why she has been ignoring me, She got back with her babys daddy. I said you know No harm No foul. I didn't harp over it. But then she calls me at midnight thinking we can hang out because her baby's dad just up and left her earlier that day, but me being the man I am, said Ok. I'll be there in about 15 as soon as we leave where were at, I went and picked her up, and took her out with my friends. Then we went to an after party, you know we kissed and hugged and all of that good stuff. And she asked me again "after I just ignored you for 4 days, why are you still being nice to me" and the only thing I could think of and made sense was "I'm just being me, I'm not going to change because every other guy that you have dated or had feelings for is a complete moron", Then. She does it again. And tries to do the same thing the next weekend, and at this point she has put me in the middle of a lot of drama, and I mean to the point of where her babys dad and his friends want to pick a fight with my friends. And yet now with her, she compeletely ignores me when she sees me, and is now "broken up for good" with her babys dad, and now has a new crush. Ladies please explain to me what exaclty might be going through her head (and her new crush, I've known for years and is the exact same way has her baby's dad)
Wow, faded life over here I see. The reason she might be calling you and telling you to come to her is because she wants someone to comfort her since she has no one she calls you up. What you're doing is very good, don't change at all, guys like you are very hard to find. She got lucky. She just needs time to get over her babys daddy. You're basically the "third wheel" in this situation, when she needs you, she calls you. When she doesn't ,she ignores you. As your situation is happening. Next time she needs you tell her what she's doing to you, because if my guy friend would do that, I would be really mad at him and smack him. But in your case you can't do that to her, so just speak with her.
All I can say is, you must really like this girl to allow yourself to be used and abused like that. If you want to stay with her, remember that her baby's father will always be involved in her life. If she's willing to completely move on from him, and stop playing games with you, I say go for it. About your question? Some girls don't go for "nice guys", because they are for the most part, not flashy and exciting, and very predictable! Some girls need that "danger" element in a relationship.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
Well normally I don't usually make the first move only if I'm brave enough to. I can be pretty shy when it comes to that. I would never use pick-up lines. They never work. I would just do a normal "Hey, how are you? My name is ______ ______. What's yours?"
How do they typically respond?
They usually just smile and respond to the question. I like girls when they smile, it leaves a picture in my mind and it remembers me of them better.
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