Is my husband a My Space Cheater?

It's very obvious that it's cover up to say "I created it to upset you" since he didn't even mention or imply anything about it. However you can not jump to a conclusion and say he is cheating. It's one thing to set your status to single and chat with a few hot girls, another thing to actually meet and screw around. One good thing would be to check his messages but then again I don't know if you have his username/password. You can check how often he signs on to his account(I think it shows that on the profile page) and figure out if he is on too much. Or you can tell him to change his status to married. There can be no excuse for not changing it, and if he finds one, something is up.

Well, I don't think you can play the "I didn't know how" card since he had to set up the account somehow. I know 12 year olds with accounts and can manipulate their pages as if they were genetically engineered to do so. A fully grown, middle aged, adult can't play that card in this country.

Now, until you can actually view his message traffic you can't call it cheating just yet. I mean, he could be using it for half-way decent reasons. This is the most I will give as far as the benefit of the doubt. Especially since he gets confrontational when he is addressed about it.

The great thing about myspace is that it is very easy to monitor conversations. I caught an ex cheating on me this way. Seeing their messages would require password access but it would be really easy to say make a fake account of a gal and try to hit on him. Se how he responds and work from there. Sounds shady I know but it depends on how worried you are and how serious you are about determining his infidelity.

I can't honestly say he is cheating but from the looks of it he is up to no good. I would further research his activities on myspace.

I would suggest checking his history on the computer, by logging on as him and going to view, explore bar, and history. See what else he has been up to. His story sounds pretty fishy to me. I'd also be checking his cell phone calls and texts-if he has one. I do have a question-did you find any messages that he had sent or received from any of these women? If so, what did they say? Do you have that feeling that there is more to it? If so, you are probably right-keep digging you'll find the info sooner or later.

Yeah you would have to look more into it to find out if he was really cheating. Just because he is listed as single, doesn't mean he is cheating. My boyfriend didn't change his status to in a relationship for months after we became exclusive. I do think this sounds a little fishy though. Did you check out the comments on his page, maybe some messages? You can't really justify cheating without some substantial proof of flirting with other women on there.

Alot of deceit on both parts. Was this just something you came across or was it an accidental finding? 2 problems here. If you were already looking for some secret of his. Then maybe lying deep in your heart is already a fear of betrayal. It does sound like he had the intent. That does not mean he is cheating though. If he took it further than chatting online then that is a different story. Did you trust him before you found his my space page?

Well he probably doesn't know how to change the status just yet. When I got mine I couldn't figure out how to even find people. So if I were you, I would make a fake one and start flirting with him on there, and see what happens. Ask him questions like "are you single, since your status says it" or make up questions. You will find out for yourself. Don't think anything just yet you might be overreacting. Give him a couple of days, if you're suspicious in a couple of days. Ask him what's going on!