I'm in a relationship with this guy and have been for about year and a half and he really has been asking questions about marriage, looking at rings, trying to find out what my taste is in a ring, and also he has been talking about a lot. Can somebody help me on this. He is even asking me when my lease is up on my apt. HELP.
The 2 year mark is the defacto standard in determining if a relationship is leading to marriage or not. Sounds like your just having fun - say you don't want to get married and let him end it now so he has time to find someone else. Cheers.
Better tell him NOW that you are not interested in marriage. He will buy a ring and pop the question soon, if not tonight. It will be a crushing disappointment to him, perhaps unendurable and may end your relationship. I you tell him NOW, you may save the relationship a little longer, but it will never last if you will never be interested in marriage and he is. I mean, what would be the point of continuing (in his eyes anyway) something that will never be "permanent"?
I agree with bigguns. He's dropping major hints right now that he's going to pop the question. If you don't share his feelings you need to tell him before he gets his heart broken!
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I like going places unique for dates. Something fun, where you can actually get to know the person. Maybe pack some lunch and go for a walk in a pretty park. Or on a windy day go fly kites and go for ice cream =). I'd wear something flirty but comfortable. I put a decent effort into looking nice on dates, but its more so I'm happy with how I look. The date ends with a kiss. =)
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Well, they'd know what kind of person I am. They'd know a bit about what I like to do for fun and what I'm interested in. I'm open enough to talk about what they want to know about me. But I usually end up leaving a bit of mystery, whether that's intentional or not.