Guys What Is That Confidence Ya Call Sexy?

If its a girl that I don't know. Walking down the road, her walk says it all, the position of shoulders, the neck, the look. That's sexy and that's confidence, even if she's not hot but has this attitude id say she's sexy.

I don't think it's really confidence, as much as self esteem. If I see a girl that is confident, it isn't really necessarily a turn on or doesn't necessarily make her sexy. But a girl that has no self esteem, can be a turn off, because she doesn't think she's pretty, she's always fishing for compliments, always comparing herself to other girls.

But how a girl sees herself affects how she talks, thinks, and acts. If a girl walks around with her head and shoulders always hanging low, and looking at the ground, that isn't really sexy. But if a girl has self confidence, she is more upbeat, isn't looking to please everyone, is more laid back and likes to have fun.

Usually in life, we typically don't worry about stuff as much as when we don't have it. If you have no money, you always worry about money. Same way with self confidence. If you don't have any self esteem, you worry more about that, and that takes your focus on that, instead of having fun and that stuff.

Yea, I think confidence affects your body language, and girls whose body language exhibit confidence are just more attractive and sexier than those who do not. I like a girl who is not afraid to get near me and make me notice her. I don't expect the girl to approach me, although a lot has done so, but I want her to look at me in the eye so I can flirt with her. I also like girls have a good self-image, which is associated with confidence. Confident girls tend to be more fun to be with, they usually respond well to my flirting and they'd shoot back when I tease them :P I also like girls who are not afraid to touch me, it makes us get to the kissing faster. Although, shy girls do respond well to my approach as well :D
I feel better when I go out with a confident girl by my side too for obvious reasons.

What is confidence? I believe that confidence is a display of how high you regard yourself. It is the way that you feel about yourself, a strong confidence is much like a strong feeling that can be "felt" like those around you.