Do you test your control over a guy?

No, we do it because we like to leave the door open. (If we're still attracted to him)

If we're not attracted to them, it's because we enjoyed the friendship and attention from before, and want to gain that back.

Surprisingly, I don't do that. Once I stop liking a guy, it's really hard for me to show any interest- not even enough to have control over him. But a lot of girls will do that- it's a confidence booster and it proves that girls CAN be dominant in a relationship.
Unfortunately, guys do that too and I think I am a victim of that one.

This sounds like a weird way to start a fight. I'm used to jealousy, things said out of context, avoiding, rumors, drinking, lying, cheating and things like that. Really, it sounds like she tried to pin you as the one starting the fight in the relationship, when you can't be that bad? Can you? (haha, I saw the name, couldn't resist)