A lot of my friends who are girls have told me that I am "going to be a steal" for whoever I end up dating, and that I am "the nicest guy" they have ever been around. Problem is that I have never dated anyone. Are they just saying that or are girls really that dumb?
Nice guys usually seem too good to be true. I mean, if all a girl sees is nice, then she thinks there has to be something wrong with him. Usually if something seems too good to be true, it is. Although you are probably a steal, most girls won't realize it until they go through enough jerks. Most girls will go for the "bad" guys because they pose a challenge for us. You never know what they may or may not do, it's all about the thrill.
So you think you may be "a steal" even though you have never had a date? And you wonder whether it is the girls who are dumb? LOL. Sweetie, you need to get out more, and you need to learn how to flirt (something most "nice guys" are not very good at. ) So screw up your confidence, get out there, take some risks, and go for it! Sure beats sitting at home and whining, right?
Well not all girls I happen to love nice guys some girls go for that tough look to them its probably sexy but its nothing like a nice guy to make you feel good and bring you chocolates when your under the weather lol don't worry the right girl will come!
Give time lol most likely when you least expect it! If you keep wasting your time waiting for her she will never come and you will miss out on other girls who are actually waiting for a nice guy like you to come their way - 2 months ago
Nooo. Not true your girl friends aren't the only girls in the world girls are different. Obviously i know plenty of girls, myself included, who prefer nice guys over jerks don't worry, you'll find someone, hopefully :), who is worthy of you're kind nature
Girls can be dumb, of course we can be, that's apart of growing up, being dumb right? I've always strayed away from nice guys sometimes, because I feel like too nice of a guy is just too nice to a lot of girls. Sharing a guy is hard especially with other girls. I'm currently talking to a guy I like and he's really nice and flirty, but I'm trying my best not to like him because I feel as if he may just be nice to me because he's just my friend not because he likes me. If you do like a girl and you feel as if she may like you tell her, because it's not that we're dumb, we might just not know how to take "nice guys."
I personally like nice guys. I mean not nice ALL the time. You have to be obnoxious at some point! To me, if you are nice 24/7/365, you can't be all that funny, and I personally like funny guys. That's just a turn on for me. I don't know. But yeah, most girls do like nicer guys. It might not just be that you're nice that you've never had a girlfriend. Just because you're nice is probably not the only reason girls may not like you. Hope you don't take that the wrong way, but normally nice, sweet guys like you are describing yourself as, have to have a little something more. Are you funny? Openminded? Athletic? Hott? Just an idea.
Yes I'm funny. Open minded, Athletic and yes I'm hot! - 2 months ago
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Well then can't girl like you but you just don't know because they are too chicken to come up to you and tell you that they have a crush on you? Girls don't like to make the first move; they think it's the guy's job most of the time. So if a girl is flirting with you, then flirt with her back and who knows what will come of it!! Hope this helped at least a little bit..lol. =] - 2 months ago
To begin with, if you're not dating anyone, and you think the problem is them, or they are dumb. That doesn't make you a nice guy.
My brother is a really nice guy. I imagine he may be a lot like you, because I think he's the perfect catch. However, when he's actually interested in a girl, I think he tries too hard. Girls like a chase just as much as a guy. If there's mutual interest there, then show her you are interested by telling her something nice. You like her new haircut. Her shoes are cute. She looks nice in her outfit. Then - leave her alone. Wait for her to approach you next time with some sort of connection.
If you're making it too clear that you're there and you're available, she may be turned off. Either she'll think you may be desperate, or you'll always be there if she comes around later.
Personally, I think a bit of a chase at first. I like the uncertainty of whether or not the guy wants to date me- and usually, nice guys don't give that chase. Now, once I am in a relationship I definitely like a nice guy! But it's hard to get into a relationship as a "nice guy" if every girl you are talking to is like me. Another reason girls might resist nice guys is because they are afraid they are going to hurt them. I am young, having fun, and not really looking to settle down. If I meet a "nice guy" I am afraid I will hurt his feelings with my wild tendencies and I would never want to hurt a nice guy.
Ok so you have wild tendencies, how does that hurt him? Do you cheat or hookup with other guys? Or do you just go out and party? I'm a nice guy and I'm willing to let a girl go out and party with her friends. I mean its hard to trust but I do it. - 3 months ago
I don't think that girls resists nice guys. I like nice guys I hate it when guys are really rude. But some girls will because not all girls are the same
It's funny how all these girls say they like nice guys. But, I'd like to put that to the test. What people say and what they do in reality are often two totally different things.
Women don't resist nice guys, they love them they just won't date them. Nice guys tend to say their feelings towards there friend too early in the game, as in before the girl says it or he tries to hook up with a girl that is a friend and then reveals that he really likes her, and what happens they say oh that's sweet but I only like you as a friend. Nice guys are pushovers, they do anything a woman wants at anytime and yes theyre a shoulder for her to cry on when her boyfriend breaks up with her boyfriend. Be a guy around her, that's what we are I mean are you overly nice to your guy friends, heck no, if they do something stupid you call them out on it right? Nice guys have no backbone when it comes to women they let them do whatever they want, they always want to please and at all costs avoids conflicts with women, nice guys usually are non decisive when it comes to making decisions they want the girl to do it. Women don't want to be in control they want you to be in contol and the guy who gets the girls knows this that is why they go for him instead of a nice guy.
Girls aren't resisting the nice guys, the nice guys are resisting. As a "nice guy" myself, I like where I stand, maybe being different is fun. With my friends, I've dated one girl and haven't gone for another. I missed my "nice guy" position, being "taken" can be exhausting. Now, I can focus on other things in my life, especially since I'm so young. Keep your mind on your future, God will put that perfect girl in your life and you in hers. Don't sweat it.
Its not the question of resisting, but being nice is equivalent to being predictable....girls like nice guys as friends but when it comes to dating they are always looking for the unpredictability in the nature.
talking in your terms who would you like to go with someone whose actions you foresee, or someone who surprises you every time...
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