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How can I get my best friend to see me as more than just a friend?

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dixon7249 (Age:Under 18)     When: 3 months ago
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Lets see here I've known her for about a year now and we are really close. she knows everything about me and I know everything about her. she just moved two hours away and is dating this guy but she told me that the only reason why she is dating him is because he is something to do up there.
i know I have had to lean on her for support for sometime and I probably sounded all whiny but she has done the same to me and I don't know. this girl means a lot to me she knows that. I have written her a few poems kind of hinting at it but I don't know if she got the whole idea of it or what? she said they were really sweet and cute and that she started to cry a bit or almost started to.
and another problem is that she's out of my league ahaha she's way better looking than I am and well see I don't know if she has hinted to me a few times because we go to the movies quite often wen I do see here and we were eating one day and she said something about paying for the movies might as well date her or something like that I'm not quite sure what she said exactly because I was focusing on something else. and she has also brought up that she doesn't like big buff guys and I have a high metabolism so I'm pretty skinny not like gross skinny haha I'm 6'0 155 lbs.
I don't know what to do! please help me I will greatly appreciate it =D

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Lady-in-Waiting (Age:36 to 45)      When: 3 months ago
Sounds like she's dropping MAJOR hints your way. Especially about saying she doesn't like buff guys. That was meant as a compliment to you. Also, she is trying to turn "hanging out" into a date situation.

Good luck! Read up on body language. Watch for THOSE signs. They mean WAY more than words.
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aly-dija (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Simple if your shy then try to drop hints and if she doesn't get it try to work up some courage to say I like you a lot
if your no where near shy just come right out and tell her she will be happy you did :)
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I pretty much always start out with a friendly greeting. I follow that up with a comment or question relating to where we are (club, amusement park, etc...). After that, just find out whether she is there with other people and what they are up to that evening. If the conversation to that point goes well, I then ask her/them if they want to join me/us and take it from there.

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With this approach, I have had success (I would say at least 2/3 of the time) and it might have to do with the genuine attempt to get to know them. Its important to display a calm and confident approach because its those brief moments in which a girl decides whether to deny you or is left intrigued by you and is wanting more.

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