This is specifically for the ladies but If a guy went through the same experience or has a strong opinion on this, then I would want ya opinion too.
If you and a guy liked each other but for some other reason didn't feel dating would be a good idea at the moment, so ya decided to be friends for a while until ya felt ya were ready. Anyway, If during that time, the girl suddenly decides that he's not interested in the guy anymore, how would you go about letting him know that you're not interested in him anymore?
Would you just tell him straight up as soon as you know?
Would you have one of his close friends tell him?
Would you stop talking to him completely and hope he goes away?
Or would treat him as just another regular friend and hope he gets the idea?
And If you have an opinion on your own not listed above then please feel free.
Update: Oh and keep in mind that she is willing to be friends with him.
3 months ago
I think I would probably treat him as a friend and hopes he gets the idea. I would emphasize the fact that I think that he is a REALLY good friend and maybe slip in that we should stay that way. I don't know I just try to avoid awkward situations
I would tell him straight to his face that he's a great friend but that we could only be friends. Tho to tell you the truth I can't see telling anyone that, because I think everyone has a chance, but I'd just say "I don't think we're right for each other, but I hope we can still be friends. "
I'd tell him straight up. I'm not a fan of mind games. They're no fun, don't do to others what you wouldn't want someone to do to you. I wouldn't want a guy to lead me on, I'd rather he just told me he didn't have those sort of feelings for me and rather be friends. That's why I'd do the same. I don't lead people on. Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts, seriously. Unless the girl is immature or likes the attention a guy gives her regardless of whether she felt the same way, I don't see why she wouldn't tell you herself.
I agree with both of ya. You see, this girl I am talking to told two of my friends that I'm not her type even though she never told me this. This tells me that she doesn't want to date me(most likely) and I could accept that. However, I cannot accept her telling my friends and not telling me. I even told her that I wanted her to tell me str8 up when(and If) she stopped liking me. I think she doesn't tell me because she doesn't want to hurt me but I am gonna be hurt anyway, so better soon than later. - 3 months ago
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No fancy dressing up...just black jeans and a white t-shirt for me...and what ever she wants to wear....we go somewhere fun and exciting...and if all goes well there will be another date.....i don't kiss on the first one...sorry...
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