Why do guys just want to be friends with me nothing more?

A picture will tell us everything, as guys at the age can't understand anything further than that.

Well, maybe because you're too buddy-buddy and not "alluring" enough.

It might sound silly, but plenty of young/teenage girls have plenty of guy friends, from kindergarten on up. You hang out with them, laugh at the same jokes, goof around, work on homework together, and so on.

Then you grow up, become teenagers, you (the girls) want to date, but you don't change your approach. So the same guys that you've known for the last decade since they were flicking boogers at you in grade school, now you want them to ask you out.

Well, guess what? The guys still see you as the kid that they flicked boogers at. Unless you change and show them, they'll see you about the same as they did last year, or about the same as their best male friend who they are not attracted to. That's NOT what you're going for, right?

Don't expect the guys to "grow up" and mature and get interested in girlfriends first. That's not typical. Nope, it's the teenage girls that have to flip the switch more often than not.

Unless you're pre-pubescent (in which case, just be a kid and solve this later), its might be time for you to act like more, well, feminine. You should probably ask girls about this more, but if you wear the right clothes, put on some makeup, flirt, be feminine, be in shape, be attractive.

It might not feel natural, and LOTS of girls struggle with this transition in MS and HS. But when you've figured it out, guys WILL notice. And start chasing you. And want to be more than friends. And then you'll have a whole new bunch of issues to ask questions about on here.