Are you usually the first person to say it? Or do you wait for the other person to say it first? Is it easy for you to say? Or do you analyze your feelings until you are completely sure you mean it?
Do you think saying it makes you more vulnerable and you are afraid of getting hurt again?
And if you do say it, how do you feel if the other person doesn't say it back right away? Are you hurt or offended? Or do you understand that they may just need more time?
I usually wait for her to say it first because I am scared if they say they don't like me and that would be embarrassing, if I say I love someone I mean it. I would never say it just to get their clothes off.
Me and my ex split 5 days ago and she didn't really love me, and I loved her so much, I cared about her than anything else in my life and she just left me out in the open. I tell you it sucked, I was nearly ready to pull out the gun under my bed and shoot myself. Since then I am afraid to love someone again and scared of being hurt again, I will soon get over it but I won't love someone the way I loved her.
And if the person doesn't say I Love You back I feel like a loser, I am very affraid that she wil tell her friends that I love her and that she doesn't and make fun of me. I am not offended or hurt just embarrassed, I understand that they may need more time but there is a fine line of just playing and really needing more time.
I am 15 and I don't think I think like the others. Don't be shy because chances is that he is shy because of you being shy like I am
Yea I think it's easier to have the upper hand in a relationship when you're the second to say "I love you," which is why I am never the first to say I love you. Another reason that I don't say, "I love you" is that I am waiting until I know for sure that, not only she loves me, but also that she is the right one.
I think that the word Love gets thrown around when we are experiencing feelings for somebody and don't know how to explain them. I wait to use the word Love until I really feel like this is the person that I could spent the rest of my life with. The word Love used in any other situation is just trying to explain that they have "feelings" for somebody and don't know what to call them. Plus Hallmark doesn't make the card that says I have feeling for you.
My parents never said I love you to me so when I have/get a boyfriend do you think it will be hard for me to say. When people say I love you to me I...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Er... right, my ideal first date would be a nice meal somewhere nice. This would hopefully be a good setting where we could chat and get to know each other. We could then go somewhere for a walk to carry on the conversation. The night would then end with me walking her home and with any luck a plan for when we could meet up again
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My date would probably know my life story *blush*. No, she would know exactly what she wanted to know about me. She would hopefully notice that I'm not a guy that expects sex on the first date and that I really enjoy listening to what a girl has to say
(Age:18 to 24)
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