How do I get out of the friend zone?

Give him a bottle of wine or cognac, and tell him its a house-warming present . It will give him an easy opportunity to ask you to share it with him (at least that's what a gentleman would do) .

Offer to help him move . You can have to opportunity to visit him outside of work (as that is your aim anyway) .

Since he's such a busy guy after work, you're going to have to make your move DURING work;

Hang an "Out of Order" sign on the door of the mens bathroom. When he makes his daily visit to your desk, take him by the hand and coyly tell him you HAVE to "show him something". Lead him into your "specially reserved" bathroom, open up one of the stalls and say -- "check it out, these walls are virtually sound-proof! " If he has half a clue, he will immediately start ushering you into the stall.

At this point you can seal the deal by not letting him take-over your little charade -- maintain your upper-hand and drop to your knees, unbuckle his pants, and give him the best head you can possibly muster (open up your top and expose your breasts so he will also have some visual stimulation).

Afterwards, zip him up, lean into his ear and tell him he tasted as good as you imagined he would. Then casually start walking away towards the exit, making sure you give him plenty time to stare at your ass, as you turn your head and give him one last seductive smile and walk out the door.

Nothing moves a relationship out of the FRIEND ZONE and into the LOVE zone faster than hot, steamy, public-bathroom-stall-sex. If you've done your job correctly, he will be taking time out of his "busy" schedule to return the favor.

Sounds like he is frightened of being rejected!. Make a firm first move. He will be overwhelmed at first but only cos of his insecurity. Snog his face off. It WILL re-assure him!

I would not begin a relationship with a co-worker. It could get ugly and others could make it a spectacle because they have nothing better to do. Tread lightly on this one and think carefully about your professional future at your job.

If you want different results, you have to change what you are doing, right? You have made clear to this guy that you are interested. That's good. But you still find yourself stuck in his "friend zone". Pushing too hard to get out of that zone will make you look desperate. That's bad. If I were you, I'd back off a bit instead. Keep smiling when you make eye contact, and keep sending out friendly vibes, but stop touching him and such. Let him keep dropping by your desk, but don't drop by his desk. Next time he asks about your plans, make sure he knows you have other friends and fun things to do on nights and weekends outside the office (in other words, make sure he understands that you are a popular, fun, attractive person, not a dork sitting at home, waiting by the phone...) Try this for a week or two, and see how he reacts. Good luck!

He's probably fearful of seeming unprofessional. Maybe he's strict on himself about keeping work and play two different worlds. But since he only sees you at work he's gently putting himself out there to tell you he likes you. Maybe he doesn't want to come on too strong or is playing hard to get so he doesn't seem needy. Or maybe he's not intentionally blowing you off, he does sound like a busy guy. This sounds like it has potential, you should write him a letter I think. It sounds silly but it'll get the point across and break the ice. And about the being too tired thing, if women can tell men that they don't want to have sex because they're too tired, and the men are supposed to be understanding of it, then I think that it's okay for a guy to be too tired to go out lol. He probably wants to be wide awake to give you his full attention. Good luck!